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friend is sick
My friend is ALWAYS sick. Now that it is summer, my friends and I go out alot together and have alot of sleepovers. So we are alwasy with my friend that gets scik. She just recently got me sick. I don't want ot get sick over the summer, so that means I don't want to hang out with her when she is sick. She should be hom anyway, but she doesn't want to miss anything. What can I say to her so I don't have to hang with her?
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Drop a hint: next time you're talking to her, say that you don't want to go out because you're sick and you don't want to get anyone else sick. It doesn't have to be true that you're sick. ALSO, are you sure that what she has in contagious? If she's always sick, then maybe she has a condition that causes it, which means she can't pass it on. I've known people with CF who were always coughing- big, phlegmy coughs. But they weren't contagious.
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If you tell your friend that you don't want to hang out with her it will rpbly hurt her feelings. If she is sick maybe she can take some medicine. If one of your other friends invites you to go hang out and the girl hat is always sick is there you cant really say go home because your sick. You didnt invite her. And really she can go any where she wants unless its to your house. Your pretty much saying you don't want to hang with this girl. Shes your friend it really shouldnt matter. Yea maybe you don't want to get sick. take medicine yourself or wash your hands when your around her. Thats all i can really say.
Kimm-
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well..the best thing is.. if its YOU who doesnt want to get sick then dont go. if your not the one whos actually having the sleep over then you cant really have that much of a say on whos aloud to be there.. you know? orrr you can just be like "hey your sick stay home fool i dont wanna get sick" make it like a serious joke. lol shes your friend. good luckkk (:
if you end up going and shes there sick.. just wash your hands ALOT.. dont sleep by her.. dont share food, soda, dont touch at all. that might help
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she probably didn't mean to get you sick, but if she asks you to sleepover or hang out when she is sick say, maybe you should rest so you feel better for ___ (upcoming event). are you sure that she is ALWAYS sick? if she is maybe she has a disease or something. another thing is that sometimes she may be sick, but sometimes she may just have allergies. also, her mom may make her stay in if she is sick. i know that when i am sick my mom tells me i should take a day or two to rest and get better. but also when you just have like a runny nose or something it doesn't mean you need to stay home, but if you really are sick, tell her she should take a few days or a day to rest until she feels better. that's what im trying to do right now because i am sick. anyway, just talk to her about it because if shes a good friend she won't get mad or anything. hope i helped. <3
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Just tell her the truth, because if she was really your friend she would understand, and while you were out doing stuff, call her and tell her what has been going on and maybe that would make her feel better while she has been sick.
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