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Everyone flocks to HER!
I love my best friend but I just don't get why people are drawn to her. Guys, girls, even little kids.
Well, she's pretty and everything so I guess I understand why all guys love her. But still, other girls and little kids die to be around her as well.
I went with her to pick up her contacts yesterday and while we were waiting, she was reading a magazine and a little girl just came up to her and after 10 min, the girl didn't even want to leave with her mom!
It happens ALL the time. At school, at the mall, the movies, EVERYWHERE. People just come up to her, they don't even know her, and start talking to her. I don't get it??
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Same EXACT thing here. At church ALL of the little kids want her to play with them. And everywhere we go, I mean it's the same as your problem. I kinda figured out she was standing up tall and smiling and seeming like a nice person, and I was just you know. Just think about your appearance; stand up straight and tall, dress nice (i'm not saying expensive clothes, just neat and clean), smile at people and be friendly! Hope I helped.
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i don't get it??
isn't a question.
infact anyone who actually offers you advice on such a petty, juvenile topic simply wants a high rating...
maybe your friend is a little more confident than someone who can't stand other people getting attention.
i suppose it would get a little weary after a while to constantly see your best friend getting more attention than you do, but try to take advantage of her popularity as apposed to complaining about it.
nobody likes a complainer. ecspecially a jealous one.
please get over your immature envy, people might "flock" to you, a bit more.
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It sounds like you're a bit jealous or envious of your friend. She probably has certain qualities that you would like to have. If you truly love her as your friend, you would appreciate those qualities and be happy for her.
Focus on bringing out YOUR special qualities and people will love you for who you are. And remember to always be yourself, you don't need to pretend that you're someone else for people to like you.
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Some people just have a natural magnetism. If it doesn't bother her, don't let it bother you.
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Maybe your friend has confidence and looks friendly. People like talking to friendly people. Maybe she looks easy to talk to. Confident people do get more attention.
//X0 H0LLY
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