i've had a really hard time getting adjusted to life. i change. i fight. i argue. i complain. i obsess. i use. i feel. i want. i work. i play. i'm anything you make of me.
Gender: Female
Member Since: June 15, 2006
Answers: 7
Last Update: June 24, 2006
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I love my best friend but I just don't get why people are drawn to her. Guys, girls, even little kids.
Well, she's pretty and everything so I guess I understand why all guys love her. But still, other girls and little kids die to be around her as well.
I went with her to pick up her contacts yesterday and while we were waiting, she was reading a magazine and a little girl just came up to her and after 10 min, the girl didn't even want to leave with her mom!
It happens ALL the time. At school, at the mall, the movies, EVERYWHERE. People just come up to her, they don't even know her, and start talking to her. I don't get it?? (link)
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i don't get it??
isn't a question.
infact anyone who actually offers you advice on such a petty, juvenile topic simply wants a high rating...
maybe your friend is a little more confident than someone who can't stand other people getting attention.
i suppose it would get a little weary after a while to constantly see your best friend getting more attention than you do, but try to take advantage of her popularity as apposed to complaining about it.
nobody likes a complainer. ecspecially a jealous one.
please get over your immature envy, people might "flock" to you, a bit more.
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my friend might be trying to make herself throw up.. before i comfront her about it.. witch will be really soon.. i need to know all the details.. like how and why she would etc. (link)
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i kind of feel like i should help you out here, because i used to have a really bad problem with this issue.
also because i think "silly rob" could quite possibly be the most uneducated, poor excuse for a human on this earth =)
what makes you think she is doing this? if she seems noticably thinner, if she's excusing herself to go to the restroom more times than normal, if she's brushing her teeth alot around you, or if you notice things like bite marks on her fingers then i would definitely ask her about it.
but speaking from expieriance, please don't come at her aggressivly or pushy. if she really does have this problem then let her know you are there for her, and you aren't there to judge.
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My sister just had a baby and he husband's last name is Wood. Well, my sister has always wanted to name her daughter "Holly". So we just need a few HONEST opinions here.
Do you find it tacky to have a girl named "Holly Wood?" (link)
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haha i think that would be adorrrable
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uugh everytime i shave my bikini line i get really bad bumps. i used a new venus razor and shave gel, but they still show up. THEY DO NOT GO AWAYY. lol. what can make them go away? thanks (link)
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don't use scented gel like skintament, which smells good but it can irratate your skin.
try aveno shave gel. also mix a little bit of conditioner with it, it makes it alot softer so it's easier to shave.
when your done put baby lotion/baby oil on a few times the first couple days.
it sucks the first few times you do it, nothing will make that go away. but the more you do it and the more consistant, the more the area of skin will get used to it and the bumps will go away :D
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i need help with why i always seem to try to add another boy to my life when i already have one. Like right now i'm about to go with this one boy but then i ran into another one and decided to talk to him too. i know i really like the first one but i want to make sure my feelings r safe.i never really want to make problems but i do. When i do this am i just being dumb or am i just insecure about my relationships? please help! i rate 5s
xoxo (link)
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exploring your options is a normal thing alot of people i know do just to make sure of their feelings for the person they think they want to be in a relationship with. as long as your not doing stuff with all the guys you think you like, then confirming your feelings for someone is no big deal. i think you know you want to be with the first guy, but make sure first. don't rush into and make sure you won't want to be with the next guy you see as soon as you get into a relationship.
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I don't know what exactly is wrong with me.
I've gotten 'There is no point in anything' stuck in my head. It gives me a sick feeling.
I can't trust many people nor do I believe what they say. I can't even really believe that my boyfriend cares for me.
And then I felt really bad one day because I felt like I would stop caring for him... like he said he wouldn't to me. But I know I don't think I would but I'm still too afraid of getting too attached to anyone as well.
I think my last relationship really affected me. But I'm pretty sure I'm over it.
But I feel depressed. And I know it's not the every day mood kind of term.
Since at times, I have no idea why I feel like shit.
What could I do about this? (link)
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i myself have a huge trust issue, i feel like no matter what people are just telling me what i want to hear.
some people tell me it's paranoia, i however blame it on my last relationship as well.
as much as you tell yourself you are over it, if you are still blaming anything or sourcing any of your problems to your last relationship then, you are in some way still attached and not completely over it. honestly the only thing to fix this is time. i hate hearing it myself, but with time you will slowly stop thinking about it more and more.
as for not trusting your own boyfriend. have you tried sitting down and talking to him about it? not just addressing it but letting it all out.
it may seem like a burden and an avoided thing to do, but i promise you once he knows how he's making you feel, you yourself will feel so much better just telling him.
it's an every day process making yourself happy, so if you see any opportunity to let it out and make yourself feel releived of it- take it. you won't feel so empty.
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okay today was the last day of school for my school. okay to keep it short, i like this guy and we are also friends. how can i stay in touch with him over the summer so he doesn't forget all about me? IMing him doesn't work because all he ever answers with is 'lol' or 'yeah'. and there is NO WAY i'd ever call him. that would be too weird, because we are more of like school friends. we talk in school and everything but not out of school.
thanks! i rate high =D (link)
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agreed, calling some guy out of no where would be awkward and odd. to make your IMing conversations a little more exciting, in a few days when you've both had time to expeirience summer a little bit, ask him how his summer is going. i'm sure he'll respond with a typical boy response and say "good" or something equally as lame. but just get him saying sooomething. why don't you say something legit like "you know i'm going to be sad if i don't get to see you all summer!" be a little flirty without being obvious. that will leave him the oportunity to invite you some where with him. it's all about your flirty little self form there.
let me know how it goes =)
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