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depression possibly?
I don't know what exactly is wrong with me.
I've gotten 'There is no point in anything' stuck in my head. It gives me a sick feeling.
I can't trust many people nor do I believe what they say. I can't even really believe that my boyfriend cares for me.
And then I felt really bad one day because I felt like I would stop caring for him... like he said he wouldn't to me. But I know I don't think I would but I'm still too afraid of getting too attached to anyone as well.
I think my last relationship really affected me. But I'm pretty sure I'm over it.
But I feel depressed. And I know it's not the every day mood kind of term.
Since at times, I have no idea why I feel like shit.
What could I do about this?
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i kno excatly how you feel my friends and family never udnerstand but im really sensitive i dont show it what so ever and i cry a lot for no reason and every little hing is getting to me.It's hard just think of all the good things you have those certain poeple that really make your life and care about you. Apreciate that
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See a doctor. She or he may put you on medication for a while that will make you feel happier. If you want the medical definition of what is happening here it is: chemicals in your brain are unbalanced causeing you do be unhappy. These chemical imbalances can be caused by prolonged sadness from and event that made you situationaly depressed (depressed for a reason) or you may just have clinical depression (depression for no reason). The main chemical that is imbalenced is your serotonin. They may not put you on medication at first and just send you to a therapist, and if that doesn't work they will put you on the medication. Hope I helped and i hope you feel better.
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Your right it could be depression,
and if you are really worried about yourself, you should talk to an adult, I know thats easier said than done, trust me, its hard to tell someone you have a problem, but you really need to get help.
Lots of things like deaths, bad relationships, can throw your chemical balances off and that can cause depression.
I havent ever been depressed, but I have friends who really are, and its so hard for them to explain to people how they are feeling, because its so terrible. So much unbearable pain.
But please get some help, for yourself!
Take care, I hope things start to look up for you :)
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If you do have depression it wont be easy to cure, it will take time determination and focus. I dont trust many people either and i also have a hard time believe what people tell me. I would say perhaps you are like that because someone or some people have betrayed your trust? The best thing to do is talk about your feelings and your thoughts and keep a open mind. write me sometime if you would like.
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i know how you feel ive been through it too but you just have to ask yourself if maybe you just arent trusting because youre afraid to get hurt and if thats the case then you need to discuss this with your current boyfriend and try to resolve your trust and belief issue. it is completely understandable that you dont want to get too attached but that doesnt mean you cant trust. you might just feel like bad because you are not completely over your previous relationship like you think but really you just need to explore your feelings and i no i no that sounds corny and retarded but its the only way i could think to put it. hopefully this was helpful goodluck.
Jenna
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i myself have a huge trust issue, i feel like no matter what people are just telling me what i want to hear.
some people tell me it's paranoia, i however blame it on my last relationship as well.
as much as you tell yourself you are over it, if you are still blaming anything or sourcing any of your problems to your last relationship then, you are in some way still attached and not completely over it. honestly the only thing to fix this is time. i hate hearing it myself, but with time you will slowly stop thinking about it more and more.
as for not trusting your own boyfriend. have you tried sitting down and talking to him about it? not just addressing it but letting it all out.
it may seem like a burden and an avoided thing to do, but i promise you once he knows how he's making you feel, you yourself will feel so much better just telling him.
it's an every day process making yourself happy, so if you see any opportunity to let it out and make yourself feel releived of it- take it. you won't feel so empty.
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eather ya get happy which is easyer said than done i know but like ya gotta have that one friend who you would give your life for and tell them everything and just let it out so maby it will let u trust a little more. i have a couple of those. ya well ya just gott talk it out and go out have fun and not care about anything it helps so much. hope i helped
Andie
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