hi my name is Jenna I'm 14 and entering high school this coming august. i love all kinds of music and my favorite colors are blue and black.i have a red belt in karate and i am supposedly smart according to my friends i have a big family and awesome friends i love my friends as if they were family and my family is something i could never live without. i have a sister, a brother, and about 15 cousins. i cant imagine being without a single one of them. well thanks for viewing my page hopefully you like it and hopefully you decide to let me help you and hopefully i will be helpful to you.
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IM 14 female i just want to say that
i have been friends w/this girl since like the fourth grade and now were gonna start high school in august
since we were in school she hasnt been the same we grew apart and she used to be really quiet and now shes really different and i dont know what to think anymore alot of the people that me and her used to talk to dont hang out with her because of the way shes been acting lately
but they havent known her as long as me
shes really a close friend and i just cant stop talking to a friend all of a sudden
its just not my thing but i dont like the person she become
should i tell her?
and even though were not going to the same high school shes been through alot together and im confused
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well this is really late and your problem is probably already solved but here's my answer!
since you have known each other so long and you were or are close you should just tell her! if shes a real friend she will be mad at first but eventually she would understand!!
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okay today was the last day of school for my school. okay to keep it short, i like this guy and we are also friends. how can i stay in touch with him over the summer so he doesn't forget all about me? IMing him doesn't work because all he ever answers with is 'lol' or 'yeah'. and there is NO WAY i'd ever call him. that would be too weird, because we are more of like school friends. we talk in school and everything but not out of school.
thanks! i rate high =D (link)
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really you just have to take the risk of calling him or asking him to call you if not you more than likely wont be able to stay in touch. if you really wanna stay in touch with him you need to make effort because hes a guy and trust me he wont make much effort no matter what. hope you dont think this is harsh and hope it helps.
-Jenna-
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In the movies do you talk fake a yawn and put your hand over the girl's shoulder hold her hand? Kiss her? i dont no what to do or when to do it.. (link)
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its good that you are worried that shows you really like her but dont plan too hard its good to want to know but ease into it and just let it happen and make sure she wants to and that she doesnt feel pressured-thats important! hope this helps. let me know how everything goes.
-Jenna-
A.K.A
phsycowithproblems
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I'm foureen female. Here's my problem: I like my best guy friend, but I don't know how to tell him I want a more than friends relationship. He waits for me after classes, when I'm scared he calms me down. He really isn't like that to anyone else. I mean there have been times where we've come close to kissing. We always hint and stuff too it's just he hasn't made a move, and I really want him to. So does anyone know cirtain things to say or hints to drop to get a guy to make a move? I'll rate five. (link)
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there is only one way for him to know for sure: TELL HIM!!!!!!!!!!!! you have to tell him staight up forget the hints just let him know, trust me i went through the same thing and now he is my boyfriend. Guys are completely blind to hints so just let it out if he is a good friend (like you say and like i am sure he is)and doesnt like you like that he will be able to stay your friend and wont let it affect your friendship so you dont have to worry about losing him in any way. hope this helps.
-Jenna-
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My ex girlfriend and I, of about 2 years, broke up back in Feb. It ended because I cheated and she didn't talk to me for like 3 months after it happened.
We've finally started talking towards the end of May. I know she doesn't want to get back together with me so I at least want to be friends.
So, now, when we hang out everything will be going fine until something reminds her of our break up and what I did to her. She then picks a fight with me and tries to get me to argue back with her.
How can I get her over this phase so we can actually hang out without her freaking out on me? Please don't tell me to give her time. I already gave her 3 months. 18/m
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you need to talk to her and tell her what you think and try to understand her and if that doesnt work out i would just say "forget it" if i were you because that apparently shows that shes not making much of an effort to stay at least friends. you just have to decide if its really worth it because youre right you already gave her time she should b over it by now but there is also the possibility that she just needs to get some things off her chest. ask her that but dont seem too desperate!! just tell her what you think and ask her to talk to you about it. hope this helps. let me no how everything works out.
-Jenna-
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I don't know what exactly is wrong with me.
I've gotten 'There is no point in anything' stuck in my head. It gives me a sick feeling.
I can't trust many people nor do I believe what they say. I can't even really believe that my boyfriend cares for me.
And then I felt really bad one day because I felt like I would stop caring for him... like he said he wouldn't to me. But I know I don't think I would but I'm still too afraid of getting too attached to anyone as well.
I think my last relationship really affected me. But I'm pretty sure I'm over it.
But I feel depressed. And I know it's not the every day mood kind of term.
Since at times, I have no idea why I feel like shit.
What could I do about this? (link)
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i know how you feel ive been through it too but you just have to ask yourself if maybe you just arent trusting because youre afraid to get hurt and if thats the case then you need to discuss this with your current boyfriend and try to resolve your trust and belief issue. it is completely understandable that you dont want to get too attached but that doesnt mean you cant trust. you might just feel like bad because you are not completely over your previous relationship like you think but really you just need to explore your feelings and i no i no that sounds corny and retarded but its the only way i could think to put it. hopefully this was helpful goodluck.
Jenna
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I have these two friends and they both lie at times. To me at times...and well one day they were asking weight. And I said I'm 160 and she said 120. now she's pretty fat and she can't in no way be 120. I was really stunned at her effort to lie. I don't want to confront her but she makes me feel like i can't trust her again.
What do I do? help me please cause it relly hurts me she lied. (link)
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I know that it hurts but before you assume shes lying make sure she is and if she is lying to you first try and understand why she is. also tell her that you are uncertain as to whether you can trust her anymore. if she is willing to try and earn her trust back than you have a really good friend and if not well maybe you shouldnt trust her. After all she might have just been embarrassed or afraid of what you might say, who knows? just try and understand her first.
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