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confused and hurt
lets see, Im taking world history in summer school for the whole summer so that I dont have to take the class next schoolyear, that way, I can have an extra elective to fill it. But my class is a mix of freshman who dont want to take the class next school year, and sophomores who didnt pass it when they took it. Theres this sophomore in my class whose going to be a junior next year, and Im going to be a sophomore. even though he goes a different school than me, we get along great, and I liked him when i first saw him. Since we sit on oppositie sides of the room, my friends tell me hes ALWAYS staring at me and look in my direction EVERY SINGLE DAY which of course, makes me really happy. and sometimes, afterschool i talk to him where he waits and i can never look him in the eye because i get so nervous but anyways, thats not the problem. the problem is, that theres this girl that sits next to him, and i will admit that shes really pretty. today, she wore his jacket half the time, and they listened to his ipod together, and they flirt 24/7 but when they arent flirting, he goes back to looking at me and its bothers me so much because i cant compete with her. but when he stares at me, i feel like i have a chance but i dont know what to do. i dont want to go up to him and be like "so do you like me or not" i just really need advice to follow. im sorry its so long but its just complicated. and Please dont say that "I should talk to him" because that will only make it worse and it will seem like im overreacting but i like him a lot and i dont know what i should do at this point
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It's true, maybe you shouldnt talk to him. This happened to me at school this guy named steven always looked at me. But he sat beside this really pretty girl named Samantha and they always flirted in this way. I always wondered if he liked me. I know i shouldn't say this but ask your friends anonymously if he likes anyone. Or after the class while your talking to him ask him like as if your not interested if he's dating anyone. Or if he has a girlfriend. You want to make sure first he's not dating someone. So just be yourself. Give him your email or number. K, hope i helped. <3 AND GOOD LUCK
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I know it hurts to see this other girl and him flirting, but if he really does like you, then he will pick you. It's not like you both are together, so he can flirt with other girls that like him. And if anything, he's not trying to hurt you. He's probably very flattered that this other girl likes him too.
I would never suggest talking to him because it wouldn't do you any good. It would make you look like you're acting like his girlfriend and that would probably scare him away. The only thing you should do is if you want to, let him know you're interested in him, and if you do both happen to get into a relationship then you can butt in when it comes to how he's interacting to other girls. Let him continue to look at you and act the way he does around you, and you act the same too. I'm sure if you were the one sitting next to him, he'd be flrting with you constantly just as he is with this other girl.
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