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I can`t lose her, shes my bff!
I`m going to start out by saying this will be long, but thanks so much to anyone who reads this all and helps me out.
I have this best friend, Casey. Words cannot descibe how much of a bff she is to me. She knows everything about me, and always knows what I`m about to say. Were with each other 24/7 and we hardly fight. She`s practicly my sister, we do everything together.
A week ago, she got this new boyfriend, this guy that I didn't like before she started dating him. His name is Nick, he`s 12, shes 13. Casey is a virgin, he isn`t. They`ve already done sexual stuff together and its their first stupid week together.
Last night I was hanging out with both of them and Nick lit up a ciggarrette, and exchanged some pot with another older guy. He offered us both some, Casey would have taken some, but didn't when she saw how mad I got. We were way back on the golf cart paths somewhere, and it was raining, I didn`t want to be in the situation so I started crying and ran away. I was lost along the paths cause I had no clue where I was. Casey didn`t follow me, even though she promised me earlier if I wanted to leave she would come with me. Nick chased after me, blew smoke all over me, and burned me with his ciggarette to make fun of me. I ended up calling Jordan, my other best guy friend, he and his mom drove 45 minutes back into the woods to pick me up only to find I was stained with the smell of ciggarrets, and crying all alone, cause I knew my best friend was slipping away. I don`t know what to do, she used to be a good girl, she never would have done any of this. Now she won`t listen to me, at all, she said she`ll never accept any of the drugs, but I know she will, she almost took them last night and she told me "they were no big deal" She got mad at me when I left cause I was being "immature and embarrassing her" When my dad picked me up, after Jordan dropped me off at her house, he smelt me and now he thinks I`m a smoker, and won`t belive that it wasn`t me. What should I do? PLEASE PLEASE guys, I`m really upset, I`m losing her, please.
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That boy is bad news. I'm FOURTEEN and I'm a virgin. And he's 12???? Tell Casey to get out of that relationship, because chances are, she's just another girl to brag about in the locker-rooms. About Jordan? Tell him the truth. If he doesn't believe you, then tell him to ask Nick or Casey. If Casey decides that she thinks Nick is cool, and stays with him, when she comes crying back to you, do not say I told you so. Be there for her, because that's what friends do. Hope this helps! I hate that for you.
Alice
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oh my gosh. kymmy. it's amanda. oh my gosh.
hey!
casey hasn't been a virgin since she was 4 and a half .. just so you know ..
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ask her if she wants to risk the friendship that you have with her or her relationship with everyone else just for one stupid boy that's nothing but a pothead!
xoxo
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I'm sorry to say, but you two are growing apart. You should write her a letter and let her know how you feel. Even though it'll be hard, you should give her some space. Make sure you let her know that you'll always be there for her, and hopefully when she comes to her senses, she'll realize what a good friend you are.
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Ok, well I think you need to email or wright your friend and tell her how you feel, somtimes wrighting can meen more than words! If she dose't respond to any of that then I would say it is time to talk to her parents about it or some one important to her! That boy he is no no no no no no no no no no no no no no good! He is 12 and doing all of that! That is horrible, and you can't change him stay AWAY! But seriously get your friend help. Before she get's to far and becomes addicted to drug and stuff like that! For your dad thinking you smoke well all you can do is tell him I am sorry Dad but you need to beleive me that I am not smoking! i don't want you to think that. He may watch you very closley for a while but after a while the tention should loosen up and he should get over it! But other than that I don't know what to say! Hope this helps! Good luck in the future!
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First of all, your friend is the one who's acting immature.... NOT you....
I really want to say that you should probably just cut your friendship with her, But NOW is NOT the time to do so....
Why?you might ask.....
It's because at times like this that you should be there for your friend.
When your friends take the wrong direction, you should always be there to guide them back to the Right track.
It seems to me like your friend's boyfriend is a bad influence. Oh, and not only a bad influence, he's such a jerk, too.
Talk to your friend about this stuff because she needs ENLIGHTENMENT so bad......
You wouldn't want your friend to take the wrong direction, right?!
But if she starts acting like a jerk, too, then maybe it's time to THINK things over.
As for your dad, you can tell him that some stupid jerk blew smoke all over you and that you would never smoke in your entire life.
Hope I helped you a lil' bit.
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Well first off i think they are wayyy to young to be doing any of that. She is only doing this because she wants her boyfriend to like her and all that. You need to talk to her and tell her the complete truth about what you think. If she is a good friend she will hopefully forgive you and try to do better. Or maybe if you loose her she will notice that her life isnt the same without you and end up coming right back. But your getting older and as you get older this happens more and more. You will oose friends and you will make friends. Its just lfe. I know its hard. If i lost my best friend I would probably go into depression. There is not much you can do because unfortinatly it will probably be hard to change her mind.
Thats really all I can say. I'm sorry baout it and hope everything works out =)
Jess<33
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