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I'm in love with my best friend
I have had a crush on my best guy friend since 5th grade (I'll be in the 11th grade next year)... We went to the Sadie Hawkin's Dance together last year and I don't know if I should ask him again or what because We had lots of fun and he was teaching me to dance... What should I do?
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I say, go for it! Nothing ventured, nothign gained. Besides, if you think it will be fun, why not? =)
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Ask him! Ask him! Ask him!
And when the time comes tell him how you feel!
Only thing I would suggest though- if you're ready to tell him, make sure you know what to say, because the last thing you want to do is ruin your friendship. And be ready for "rejection"- if he doesn't feel the same way you do. If that happens though, I hope you all still are friends, but if not, who knows where your relationship may end up leading!
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I was also in the same situation as you are in right now.
I was also in love with my best friend and we went to a dance together. I didnt want to ask him if he liked me or if he wanted to go to the dance again with me, but after awhile passed i got tired of waitting for him to ask me so i gathered up all my courage and i asked him if he liked me and sure enough he said yes!We are still best friends to this day! If you have been best friends since 5th grade then you have nothing to loose by asking him because no matter what happens best friends are for life. Dont be afarid to take chances cause one day you might regret not taking a chance..
Best of luck to you!!!I hope that things work out great!
I hope that my advice helped!
Alysonwillow ^_^
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Definitely ask him to go again. Let him know how you feel. I know that "FOR" (fear of rejection)is probably kicking in, but nothing good comes if you don't take a few risks. Worse case scenario he says no, but atleast then you'll know. If he says yes then there could be endless possibilities. Tell him how much fun you had, tell him how you feel, don't throw it all on him at once, but maybe start with asking him to the dance. Then at the dance or even after, you might tell him that you like him. Go out on a limb, take a chance..it might be the best thing you have ever done! You definitely don't want to be wondering 2 years from now "What if". Good luck and let me know how things go.
<3 Leslie
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Ask him! Why wouldn't you!? Tell him you had a ton of fun last year, and you'd like to go together again this year.
And I think you should tell him you like him. Life is WAY too short to not take chances and risks once in a while. Why sit around wondering what could've been, what would've been and what should've been, when you can answer all of those questions and then some by being honest and telling a boy how you really feel about him?
Good luck =]
-Laura. (16-f)
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