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dont know what to do..
okay.. so im 15/f... and sorry in advance if this is long.. but ill rate high for any answers..
So me and my friend.. lets call him tom.. well ive known tom for 9 years. and we get into a lot of fights over really stupid things.
And right now were in a fight. and i dont know what to do anymore. because okay this is what our fight is right now:
Well i was talking to him on aim. and it was a normal basic conversation the whole hey whats up.. and all that.. well then he said he had to go. and he signed off. then some other kid.. lets call him fred.. imed and said. "were you botherin tom" and i was like no.. and he was like yeah right. whats up? so i was like what are you talking about. then he said nothing and he was "jp". so later i asked him in a message and he said that tom said something to him about me "bothering" him.
So i sent tom a message saying that i wouldnt ever "bother" him agian. soo yeah..
and he read the message. and he didnt say anything back..
soo yeah.. i dont know what to do.. cause i wanna be friends with him again. but i dont really know what to do.
any ideas?
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Well, it sounds like you kinda initiated the not speaking to each other part...
And if "Tom" really said you were bothering him, it could either mean that he was having an off day, and didn't wanna deal with you, or isn't really your friend anymore. ALTHOUGH, the bothering bit could be a misunderstanding partially caused by "fred".
Talk to "Tom", ask him if you really annoy him, he might not be honest, but you're trying, right?
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see what happenes get him alone talk to him ask him why he would say that and make sure its face to face --ALLEY n rate and the long-ness dont madder aslong as your putout all the info needed to answer a qusetion so dont worry about the long-ness of it
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