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my friend invited me to go to this lake w/ her and her friends next weekend and i thought it was okay at first, but then she started telling me more about it. she said that the lake is her friends grandparents and hes the one who wants everyone to go. hes 19 tho and im 15 and i just think its sorta weird u kno? my friend is 15 too but if we both go there will be 6 people there 3 girls and 3 guys. the rooms are seperate so it shouldnt be too awkward bu i have a bad feeling about it. last night my friend invited me to the movies to go w/ him and her and i said no she was like " he'll meet your parents if you want him to he said hed give you a ride" but im here thinking why does he want to meet my parents, he hasnt even met me! then i was on the phone with my friend last night and i was telling her about it and she was like dude!!! he likes you! b/c 2 of our friends told her he did and he had one of them as his number 1 on myspace i asked my friend why and she said its b/c he liked our other friend and he did the same thing to her and apparently he dates alot of young girls. i just think its really freaky, what do i do? should i go next weekend or not, and why does this dude like me, i dont think its just like a lie because i was talking to the girl who initially ivited me online and she was like ya he said hed pick you up i think he likes you and later was when my friend said he did. i dunno am i over reacting??? please help!!!!! (sorry this is sooooo long!)
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You should definitely go with your gut. Tell your friend that this situation is making you really uncomfortable, and you'd rather not go to the lake with them. It's majorly creepy and very inappropriate for a 19-year old to be interested in a 15-year old. Ask your friends to leave you out of it, and advise them to stay away from this dude as well.
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Trust your instincts always. If something is telling you not to go then don't. No matter what
19 year olds messing with anyone your age is illegal and it is odd he would just want you there to go swimming.
Don't get put in a situation where you are away from home with no easy way back. I honestly think you need to say no to this weekend getaway. :)
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i dont think your over reacting..
i mean he is 19.. and you are only 15..
and it sounds to me that he does like you and this is not a lie or anything..
i think you should go to the lake with your friend and maybe just see what happens.. and if the guy tries anything be like why do you like me? i dont even really know you..
but if you dont want to go.. dont go.. your friend will understand if you tell her the reason why you dont want to go..
if you do find out for sure that he does like you.. (which you kinda already have) you could try and talk to him and be like well i dont really want to date anyone right now (well that is if you dont want to date him) and say to him i think it would be cool if we could be friends.. or something like that..
hopee i helpedd... goodluckk
<3 kayy <3
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No you're not over reacting! And i have to say that is kinda wierd and all. About you going to the lake... The decision is yours to make obviously. But if I were you I wouldn't go. You have doubts about the whole situation and you need to trust your gut. It sounds as if you were to go there would be 3 couples and that doesnt sound like soemthing you are interested in. Also you've never met this guy and don't seem to know much about him. Explain to your friend that you're not comfertable going. Yes he may be her friend but you don't know him, let her know that the whole situation bothers you. If she is your friend I'm sure she will understand!
Kait♥
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