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my crush


Posted Thursday April 21 2011, 12:13 pm

Paige...I have this crush! i dont know if he likes me tho!!!we have been talking al lot on facebook!!!I am sooooooooooooo shy to tell him that I like!!!lik...his friends,his brother,AND a lot of other people say he likes me...But i dont believe them!!! He has to tell me!! Everyday I wake up sobbing because Of him!!! I miss him if i m not around him for more than1 hour!!! i cant believe I am tellin u this because i am so popular I am soooo hard to get too.But with him I feel...I fell so different!!!When he talks to me I cant help giggle ing!!I cant help a smile when I am around him!!! he is the hottest guy in school!!!What should I do???I m heart broken when he is not around me!!! Please wright back to me!!!tell me what should do...PLEASE!!! <3

LOVE,
Karla

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so this guy i like likes me back && my ex asked me out again &&


Posted Thursday April 21 2011, 9:51 am

Okii so theirs this guy i really really like, my ex asked me out and wants to knoe by friday (tomorrow) i wanna say no but i think that will hurt him, but i also wanna use it as an excuse to ask the guy i like if hes ever gonna ask me out, or if im just waisting my time, please help me come up with something to tell the guy i like.

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it is about what love is like..


Posted Thursday April 21 2011, 2:42 am

Do you think it is really possible loving someone but not interested in sleeping with him? or maybe it is just a lust?
I am a female and from Egypt...30yrs old.

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Can't stop thinking about him


Posted Wednesday April 20 2011, 10:57 pm

This ALWAYS happens to me. I get so into someone that they are all i can think about. This one guy i recently hooked up with, hasn't been answering my calls or texts so i put him off the burner for a while waiting for him to come to me, but it hasn't happened. I can't stop thinking about him, but i'm starting to think it was just a one time thing for him and he's not into it for the long run. So what should i do? Please help

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He talks about our future and kids!!!


Posted Wednesday April 20 2011, 9:09 pm

i've known this guy since the 8th grade, we were like best friends, I could tell him every or anything and trust that he would keep it a secret....we were so close, and we both had a crush on each other but afraid to say...anyways i left the school in 9th grade and lost touch for a year...thats when he asked me if i want to give us a shot and i agreed...then he started acting like an ass, one second he is sweet then the next he makes insulting jokes about me when i'm around his friend and always trying to dictate to me what i can and cannot do. we keep breaking up and getting back together. Now we broke up again because he went too far this time and he keeps ringing my phone off and i'm not answering, i'm confused. HELP!!!!

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it hurts so much


Posted Wednesday April 20 2011, 8:01 pm

so me and my boyfriend WANT to have sex, were going to use protection and everything, we have talked about it.
last weekend i had the house to myself, he came over...
but we he went to put it in i froze up and it was very painful, he didnt even have it in.. is there something wrong with me?

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Kind of Funny


Posted Wednesday April 20 2011, 7:27 pm

20/f. Ok, I'll start off by saying that I'm VERY picky. I think it's even a miracle that I like someone because I never saw myself falling again. So, this guy is like my dream boy. He treats me really nice, we have a lot in common, he's very clean cut. He's SUPER cute! He always listens to me. Just perfect! My one major turn off is earrings. He doesn't wear any. That's the only thing that REALLY turns me off. So, I found him on facebook and some of his pictures he has earrings. yikes! But, I don't want to let him go because he's a good catch. He's really sweet. And he can take the earrings off. lol. I mean, he doesn't wear them to school or anything. I'm just concerned he's gonna wear them on our first date. Any suggestions? Should I talk t...

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I came clean to my boyfriend about my sexual past....


Posted Wednesday April 20 2011, 4:53 pm

When I first met my boyfriend of one year we never talked about our sexual past. It wasn't until 9 months into our relationship that he started to ask me questions about it. I have had a pretty wild sexual past. When I was single in college, I had almost 30 sexual partners. I have never had a problem with infidelity and have always been faithful when I was in a relationship. Furthermore, I had some crazy experiences after college. I also slept with my boss, who I started dating several months after I took the job. Anyway, at first I didn't tell him how many sexual partners I had had. He is separated from his wife because she cheated on him while they were married. I thought that if I told him the truth in the beginning that he wouldn't be a...

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He might move this summer and doesn't want to me too attached.


Posted Wednesday April 20 2011, 8:45 am

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a month. I just found out yesterday he might go to Arizona this summer to visit his dad and move in with him. He told me he doesn't want me to get too attached, and he said he doesn't want to do certain things so I won't get as attached. I feel upset. I really like him and I don't want our relationship to be focused on what might happen. I want to take everyday at a time and enjoy it while we can. I let him know this, but now I am fearing he won't act the same because of the fact he might leave. Any advice?

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How to get over an ex with new boyfriend?


Posted Wednesday April 20 2011, 12:39 am

I have posted up a couple of other times on the forums about my situation. About a week and a half ago my gf of 2 years broke up with me we are on and off long distance and the last time I saw her was 3 months ago. Its a long story but the short of it is that we broke up and are doing no contact at the moment. Just 2 weeks ago to me it seemed like everything was fine. We were talking a few times a day and sending corny love messages back and forth like usual. It hit me like a ton of bricks when she wanted a break and I was so surprised. Part of the reason I moved across the world and got a job here was to be closer to her.

Lately Im having such a hard time coping with the situation. Its caught me by surprise and Im not sure w...

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How should I go about kissing him?


Posted Tuesday April 19 2011, 8:56 pm

Me and my boyfriend lets call him Kyle, have been going out for 4 years. We have never kissed or even hugged. The most we have done is hold hands. How should I go about kissing him?

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Love square: Which of three guys should I pick?


Posted Tuesday April 19 2011, 8:14 pm

Who do you think I should pick???? I am stuck and I think I have fallen for three guys. I need help on whom to chose. I have chemistry with em all and we get along well.

Guy 1- He is drop dead gorgeous, he can sing, write poetry, hes athletic, and hes a christian

Guy 2- Hes cute, funny, sensitive, loving, and smart

Guy 3- Hes intelligent, not so good looking, sweet, caring, funny, and can play instruments.



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I'm apparently just part of a schedule to him


Posted Tuesday April 19 2011, 6:13 pm

First of all, my boyfriend and I have been dating for like 1 1/2 years. I love him and I don't think he's a bad person, but I've really been having a problem with the way he treats me lately. We always hang out everyday after school until 4 (so like 30 minutes) and then we hang out every friday night from 7-10:30. Now, it's not that I have a problem with the amount of time we get to hang out, I just HATE how it's so scheduled...I feel like he doesn't even want to hang out with me outside of the schedule unless he wants to do sexual stuff. He never wants to break the schedule :( I just want to have a carefree "see each other when we feel like it" thing so it's fun and spontaneous, but he's more focused on keeping everything in orde...

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I want a girl to be interested again


Posted Tuesday April 19 2011, 4:35 pm

I am a freshman in college and there's this amazing girl that lives down the hall. She is gorgeous and funny and so many guys text her and want her. At the beginning of the semester, we started becoming friends and we liked each other and hooked up at a party (drunkenly). We ended up sleeping in the same bed that night and from there, we started hooking up and it turned into something special. we slept in the same bed for weeks (but did not have sex). I really liked her and asked her out. She said no, but didn't really give a reason. A few weeks later she ended up telling me that she lost interest in me and didn't like me anymore. I was super depressed for a few days and she ended up talking to me about it. She said that she doesn't want a ...

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AWKWARD moments with my boyfriend rubbing my boob!


Posted Tuesday April 19 2011, 11:54 am

Me and my boyfriend were watching a movie.and He randomly started touching my boob and rubbing it and I didnt mind it to much so I let it go. He then started rubbing up and down my arm but when I did the same to him his penis rose up in his pants( so much that I could see it) It was very awkward and I dont really want it to happen again lol WHAT DO I DO?

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I don't want a boyfriend!! ;-)


Posted Tuesday April 19 2011, 9:23 am

Everything is just going so well for me. Is that bad I don't want to date? I feel it would be a distraction... I'm doing very well in all my classes right now and don't feel I have the time... The main reason I ask this is my friends keep trying to set me up because my ex of 3 years dumped me a few months ago and they think I need to get out there and date... I keep telling them I don't want to but they don't understand. I know they mean well and just want to see me happy but I am...I just don't know what to say to them anymore. I tried explaining that if I wanted a bf I could find my own, and that I don't want to get serious until after college.... Please help meh!



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Is he lieing? I don't think I could trust him after seeing that!


Posted Tuesday April 19 2011, 1:25 am

I have a boyfriend of 4 years. Here recently, a couple days before our 4 year which was like a week ago I went on to my boyfriends Facebook, just to randomly check up on him. I go through his messages and come across a conversation that my boyfriend started up. It goes along the lines of " Hey so I just wanted to let you know I had the biggest crush on you back in BCIS class and I thought you were cute" she said aww why didnt you tell me? i feel the same kind of thing. and he mentioned he STILL thinks shes cute and that the vodka helps. Gave his number to her and the next morning puts "even sober I meant all that" After that, I was BEYOND pissed and confronted him about it. He claimed he got drunk with a couple friends a...

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There's this guy... of course.


Posted Tuesday April 19 2011, 12:02 am

20/F and 22/M

Okay. So I have a friend, call him Steve. I've known him for YEARS and I know his family well. During high school, we hung out with different crowds so we went our ways and now we're really close friends again.
And of course, NOW I like him more than a friend since we've been hanging out and going out for almost a year now.
Problem is... he has a girlfriend that he's been dating on-and-off for about 8 months. The girlfriend is not exactly a friend but more than an acquaintance. The girlfriend is a strong believer in abstinence and Steve is definitely NOT a virgin (Kudos to her but that's not my style).

So Steve and I have gone out a lot lately(without his girlfriend). I don't conside...

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We're both scared to make a move ...I think


Posted Monday April 18 2011, 11:43 pm

20/female Ben 19

So me and Ben have been friends for about 5 years now. We have always had an attraction to each other BUT neither of us act on it. We've never kissed or anything ...we used to cuddle a lot and he's touched me all over but nothing more and that was about 2 years ago when things were really hot and heavy. Now it seems as though things settled down and we haven't cuddled or anything for a while but still flirt ALOT.

Obviously we're still attracted to each other but it's kind of like ...neither of us wants to make a move because we're not FOR SURE that the other one wouldn't be like "why did you do that, that was awkward, you got me totally wrong" To be honest, every time I see him I just...

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he's like a whole different person when we're on the phone.


Posted Monday April 18 2011, 11:36 pm

To be honest, I have posted advice on this before, but it's getting out of hand. My boyfriend and I have been dating for three weeks now. We talk on the phone every night. Well, at least I do. He used to play video games and watch tv whenever we would talk on the phone and I told him it bothered me, so he stopped doing so. But now it's like...ugh. He's all quiet and weird on the phone and I'm always the one talking while he says one word replies like oh and yeah and mhmmm. It's getting on my nerves. I mean, what is the relationship if we barely see each other anymore because he's grounded? I like him a lot. We have a good chemistry. He's extremely sweet to me in person, showering me with compliments and loud with chit chat. But on the phone...

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