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I want a girl to be interested again
I am a freshman in college and there's this amazing girl that lives down the hall. She is gorgeous and funny and so many guys text her and want her. At the beginning of the semester, we started becoming friends and we liked each other and hooked up at a party (drunkenly). We ended up sleeping in the same bed that night and from there, we started hooking up and it turned into something special. we slept in the same bed for weeks (but did not have sex). I really liked her and asked her out. She said no, but didn't really give a reason. A few weeks later she ended up telling me that she lost interest in me and didn't like me anymore. I was super depressed for a few days and she ended up talking to me about it. She said that she doesn't want a boyfriend and her feelings changed. After that, she was really mean and cold to me and embarrassed me in front of all our friends and there was a lot of tension. We started arguing a lot and it was almost like she didn't even want to be my friend. She would roll her eyes every time I entered the room, etc. I got really mad at her and bitched her out calling her mean names (drunkenly). There was a lot of tension, but then we made up. She all of the sudden started being nice again and it was just like it used to be. Now we have become friends again and I feel the same dynamic from when we were "together". I really want to date her, but I don't know if she likes me again. I think she still thinks I think she is a bitch and that I lost interest, but I really think she's the sweetest girl I know and I want to date her. I am not some sort of pig. I have never had sex, and I only hook up with girls that I like a lot. I want to know what I should do. (Tell her how I feel, or let her come to me). Everyday when I get a text message, I hope it's her asking me to hang out and watch TV like we used to.
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Be careful of this girl. Her completely inappropriate response to you yelling at her, is huge red flag in her emotional stability. Just, be careful.
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Does she ACTUALLY think you think shes a bitch? If so tell her that you don't and that she's the sweetest girl you know. If you KNOW she would want to date you, then add in that you also want to date her.
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1) awwee!!! that is so adorable, but 1, try to invite her to go to places but start off with a group of friends first and play by her hobbies
2) be natural and cool, dont give her too much credit or she will start thinking that she is to good for you :P
3) act like just a friend and start to sweeten up sometimes
4) if you feel like shes starting to crave for you, dont give in, let her, it usually drives girls insane when then like a guy and he is too good for them
5) she might try to make you jealous but dont fall for it, be happy for her, and let her beg for you
6) once you guys get really close, make the first move (up to you) and whatever else happens from then on
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
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