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okay so im 14 and my bf is 15 and we have been dating for a month and i dont know what to get him for Christmas and how to give it to him to please help!
Find out what your boyfriend likes most! :) If its video games, find out the one game he really wants, or whatever else he has huge interests in. If you would like, meet up with him at the mall, or at second cup ( anywhere as long as it's a date ), then give it to him, and kiss him. :) If he doesn't seem to like it much, exchange it for something else.
P.S. Wishing you best of luck, Merry X-Mas :)
~gamergirlxoxo
The last 3 days after i eat, i get really bad cramps.It is so bad i can hardly breath.I have missed work and don't know what to do.I went out on black friday and i'm wondering if i picked up a bug,any suggestions?
:) You might have caught a bug, or your body's internal system is trying to fight something off ( or it might not be co-operating properly ), best thing to do is check with a doctor, and drink lots of water. The doctor may or may not give you medication.
P.S. Hope you feel better
~gamergirlxoxo
Hey Im 16 and a senior in highschool. I met this guy in an interschool competition. He's the same age but is a senior in some other school. We started talking after the competition and became good friends. We have gone out on three dates till now. And yeah, we have kissed each other and made out a little. We cannot resist each other at all. And hence the makeouts were a mutual desicion. I am falling for him. But the problem is that even though he says he is falling for me, he keeps on telling me he cannot date me cause he's a bad guy and he cares for me too too much to hurt me. He says he is not one of those dateable guys who will love their girl completely and he might find a new girl and dump me.That would hurt me and he doesnt want to do that! He hasnt had a past record of cheating or anything it's just that he tells me he wants to be sure before he asks a girl out that he will be completely loyal to her and not flirt around with other girls. He also liked this girl a year back and he says he feels guilty that he got over her and fell for me! But when we meet we actually act like we are dating, cause he gets me stuff, he tells me he loves me, we hold hands. we actually act like a couple in love. we also talk all the time. I dont know what to do. Because I really want to be with him. But cant figure out how to make him ask me out? and if he is really a bad guy? HELP.
xx
Tanvi.
He is a bad guy, but everyone has good in them :)
What you got to do is sit down and talk to him about your love life mixing with his.
See how he feels about it, and tell him that if hes really falling for you, there is a chance he won't hurt you.
Try to keep yourself a little bit off and separated from him, don't get to into him, or your heart will break. View him from a different perspective, see how he looks at other girls. I know its tough, but just get to know him better and understand the type of guy he is. You don't necessarily have to dump him or let him go, have some fun! :) But don't fall too deep until you know he's fully committed.
~Gsmergirlxoxo
P.s. wishing you the best of luck, if anything new happens, message me :)
Okay so there is this real close friend of mine.We are classmates. And we had this sleepover, a couple of us, guys and girls. I just broke up two months back with my bf who cheated..so i am still getting over it...And my friend broke up a few days ago. We ended up chatting throughout the night, and i dont know what happened but we ended up kissing each other too..it was not our intention of doing ANYTHING like that. we pretty much have feelings for our ex's and not each other. i dont know why and how it happened.
we have promised not to tell this to anyone. and that this incident will stay a secret between the two of us forever. but i feel weird about it, i feel disgusted for doing such a stupid thing now. do you think things will change because of this? i am scared he would tell someone which i really dont want.HELP. how should i handle this?
Heyy sorry I just got onto my account, but believe it or not, this does not mean you like each other. Here is how you should handle this:
1) Talk to them again and tell them how you would really like it if they kept it personal because it wasn't meant to happen.
2) Do not avoid the friend, act like nothing happened and they will tag along and act the same way. That way, you guys will both be friends just like it was before it all happened.
3) Don't panic, make sure to understand that it was all an accident and it will make you stop thinking about it.
4) Try to gain trust into the friend and soon they will start to forget about it.
5) No matter what, after talking to them about keeping it a secret, DO NOT bring it up. Let them forget.
Hope this helps,
P.S Wishing you the best of luck
♥gamergirlxoxo♥
I really so freakin in love with him I just needa' put a kiss on him!!!! :｜
ahaha i have been through the exact same thing
1) if he is your boyfriend, start off with a peck of the cheek or look deeply into his eyes and lean in until he gets the point and kisses you
2) first make sure he is okay with the process of you both kissing yet
3) if not, give him some time, and tempt him a little, if yes, then lean in and just kiss him, he will kiss back i guarantee
4) if he is just a crush and not your boyfriend, then first find out if he likes you
5) try to get him to like you and tempt him if he doesnt like you back, if he does, try to be a little closer with him and remember, be sweet
6) if you think its time, slowly lean in and peck him on the lips, he will get the clue and will kiss you back
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
P.S Wishing you the best of Luck!
hey! I looked at your profile when you answered one of my questions. Im a male, 17 years, and i always wanted to move to Canada, specifically in Southern Ontario is the suburbs near Toronto. I saw that you live in Canada and was wondering if you could tell me what its like? I live in Southern California right now, and ive wanted to move there in my third year of college. Whgere in Canada do u live? What are the people like? the weather? the lifestyle? THanks!
1) i live in Alberta :)
2) the weather can be really annoying sometimes, because you never know whats up next
3) today we were expecting a ton of sun and we got rain and hail
4) the weather always changes, when it gets hot, it varies between 20 degrees and over usually to 32 degrees or so
5) in the summer it gets much warmer and nicer but we end up having rain storms sometimes
6) canada is a great place i promise you, the people are very sweet and helping
7) if you need help you can just ask anyone and they would help
8) the lifestyle is great, the jobs are great, and the schools have yet one of the best educations you can find
9) trust me, if you would like you should come out to canada for a couple weeks during the nice weather
and see if you enjoy it
10) i hope you do, its a reallly nice place :)
Hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
P.S. Wishing you the best of Luck, and trust me, you will love it especially the sunsets and beaches :)be careful near beaches though, they tend to cause many floods in places such as British Columbia :) where the weather is really moist and warm ^w^
IM 17, male, a senior in HS
my girlfriend who is younger just broke it off with me, since she said she was losing feelings for me. but i realy know that she is just scared, like really scared, and she is getting pressure from me and from her mom. Her mom doesnt want her to date. I dont know what to do and now i am literally heartbroken...... I dont want to get over her. I just want her back.
How do i Win her back?
1) talk to her and tell her what you think she is feeling and about the pressure she is under
2) tell her how much you love her and compliment her
3) say how much you want her to be with you
4) give her some time to think
5) patch it all back up together when she is ready
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
P.S wishing you the best of luck
this guy and i have broken up and gotten back together so many times i lost count but im the one who keeps breaking up with him. . . he loves me and i thought i loved him but i like him more when we aren't going out and then when we get back together little by little i stop liking him we cant even last a week do u think i should break up with him for good or just wait a while longer to c if i change my mind
1) wait a couple days and then see if u have feelings for him and only think of the positive happy things of your relationship with him
2) later on, if you are unsure, talk to him and tell him how you like him more when you guys are friends
3) talk to him about how you're falling out of love and only into a friend stage, then tell him if you want, that maybe you might change your mind, but you need some time to think
4) I hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
Good Luck!
P.S If it doesnt all work out the way you expected, remember this, there are many guys out there and just maybe, you will find your perfect match :)
Hi, Since today, when I use my mouse to click on the back arrow to go back a page, it doesn't work. It changes colour like it should when it would be working, but doesn't go back a page.
If I use alt and left arrow on keyboard that works, but I would really like to get it working with my mouse.
The same thing happens when I try to use the refresh button with my mouse. It changes colour, but no refresh happens, yet when I do function and F5 it works.
Any ideas would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
1) your mouse may have a slight key press problem or you could remove the refresh and back button, then reload them on by going into : tools, and then onto add-ons or right click at the top of your page and press customize
2) you may also want to check your computer for viruses, Norton 360 really works well
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
P.S
wishing you the best of luck!
Ok so me and my bf have been going out for a while, and tomorrow is easter. I asked my best friend to ask my boyfriend if he wanted to kiss me and he said "umm.. idk" so she said that it had to do with his easter present ( I was going to kiss him for the first time) after she asked again he said "hell yea!! I don't know if you knew this already but I love her more than I've ever liked any other girl" once she told me that he said this about me I was soooo happy!! So I now know that he wants to kiss me but I only see him in school... we sit together at lunch though.. so my question to you is.. when would be a good time to kiss him and how do I start to?? I'm very shy and he would only be the second guy I've ever kissed. Btw at lunch we hold hands all the time.. so how can I start to kiss him and if all goes well where can I touch him while we are kissing.p.s. I can't drive and I'm only 14. (Please don't tell me I'm too young) so gor any ideas. Thanks!!
1) OMG this happened to me with my bf, although it was my first, and we got used to it after
so what you can do is, when you two are holding hands, quickly lean into him and peck his cheek (or lips) and let him make the next move
2) you could lean in and whisper something, so it would temp him and it usually works, that guys make the first move and peck your lips
3) or you could give him a big bear hug and kiss his neck, cheek, or lips, etc and pull away, that will give him the signal
4) where you could touch him is his cheek or chest, right next to his heart, shoulder, arm, or wrap your arms around his neck
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
P.S.
wishing you the best of luck! :D
This ALWAYS happens to me. I get so into someone that they are all i can think about. This one guy i recently hooked up with, hasn't been answering my calls or texts so i put him off the burner for a while waiting for him to come to me, but it hasn't happened. I can't stop thinking about him, but i'm starting to think it was just a one time thing for him and he's not into it for the long run. So what should i do? Please help
1) awee! well what you could do is talk to him sometimes in reality, so that way he will reply
2) if he doesnt want to get hooked up again then slightly let him go, and soon you will be over him
3) everytime you start thinking about him, quickly change your mind onto something else, like tv channels, they dont all show the same show at the same time, right?
4) act natural or cool around him and act like it never happened, and if he talks to you, talk to him like nothing had happened, it will make him suspicious
5) if he is not coming to get you, you could let him go once and for all, or confront him and ask him why he is avoiding you
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
P.S
wishing you the best of luck
Hi! You answered my question earlier and it really helped! I just wanted to add a couple of things.. The girl I was talking about had a relationship first semester with a guy, but he "hit it and quit it" and she was super depressed.. and I was the next serious guy in her life. So I feel that she also might be upset about this. When she broke it off with me she kept giving me reasons that seemed fake and kept saying that her feelings changed.. but I think she is still upset about this, and I want to prove to her that I'm not a douche like every other guy. I want her to see that I'm different and hooking up with a bunch of people (which is what she is doing now) won't help her. I actually care about her. And I think her being mean to me was a way of hiding her feelings for me. Like she wanted to make me angry with her so I would forget about her.. but I think she likes me. The things I said to her were really mean and immature but I apologized.. so I don't know if she still thinks badly of me because of it. Thanks so much for your help!
1) hmm lets see, you should confront her and tell her how amazing you think she is, but if you are the shy type, try to send her a note, or act like it
2) ask her if shes okay about the 'things' she has been through that broke her heart, because right now, she might reallly need someone's shoulder to cry on
3) comfort her and tell her shes way to good for him and brighten her up and make her laugh more often, girls like guys who do that
4) tell her you never meant those words that you said to her, and they were just a reaction to whatever was happening that made you say it
5) tell her she looks nice or you like what shes wearing
6) talk to her and bring up the subject of you having a girlfriend, especially one that even thanked you for not just dumping them or a friend for not just ditching them after all they have been through, she may lighten up to you
7) if you think she likes you, then give her nice and dont pull back instead of all the anger she wants you to react within, or just play along and be cool, it may drive her insane, but possibly, she iwll come running to you
8) lastly, ask her if she is feeling bad about anything, and use this line or something like this: well if you need anyone to talk to, i got your back
or something like that, just to help her get through he problems, and be a sweet friend first, dont just jump into her love life yet, let her get her problems straight then ease your way in
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
P.S
I wish you best of luck!
I am a freshman in college and there's this amazing girl that lives down the hall. She is gorgeous and funny and so many guys text her and want her. At the beginning of the semester, we started becoming friends and we liked each other and hooked up at a party (drunkenly). We ended up sleeping in the same bed that night and from there, we started hooking up and it turned into something special. we slept in the same bed for weeks (but did not have sex). I really liked her and asked her out. She said no, but didn't really give a reason. A few weeks later she ended up telling me that she lost interest in me and didn't like me anymore. I was super depressed for a few days and she ended up talking to me about it. She said that she doesn't want a boyfriend and her feelings changed. After that, she was really mean and cold to me and embarrassed me in front of all our friends and there was a lot of tension. We started arguing a lot and it was almost like she didn't even want to be my friend. She would roll her eyes every time I entered the room, etc. I got really mad at her and bitched her out calling her mean names (drunkenly). There was a lot of tension, but then we made up. She all of the sudden started being nice again and it was just like it used to be. Now we have become friends again and I feel the same dynamic from when we were "together". I really want to date her, but I don't know if she likes me again. I think she still thinks I think she is a bitch and that I lost interest, but I really think she's the sweetest girl I know and I want to date her. I am not some sort of pig. I have never had sex, and I only hook up with girls that I like a lot. I want to know what I should do. (Tell her how I feel, or let her come to me). Everyday when I get a text message, I hope it's her asking me to hang out and watch TV like we used to.
1) awwee!!! that is so adorable, but 1, try to invite her to go to places but start off with a group of friends first and play by her hobbies
2) be natural and cool, dont give her too much credit or she will start thinking that she is to good for you :P
3) act like just a friend and start to sweeten up sometimes
4) if you feel like shes starting to crave for you, dont give in, let her, it usually drives girls insane when then like a guy and he is too good for them
5) she might try to make you jealous but dont fall for it, be happy for her, and let her beg for you
6) once you guys get really close, make the first move (up to you) and whatever else happens from then on
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
I am intrested in pursuing fashion designing after 12th :)
I am currently in the 12th grade.. will pass out next year
I am looking for internships and I want to do some freelancing before i pass out so that i have a little experience and plus i have always been intrested in being the editor of some fashion magazine
I dont know where to start
HELP please!!!!!
1) i have a family friend who's close friends have done the exact same thing, although, she ended up quitting O_O but heres a good way to start, send in some applications to magazines and wait until you get some replies
2) ask a fashion teacher if you have any at your school, and ask her if they have any idea how to start, they r reallly helpful trust me :D
3) start out by designing fashions and interesting photo shoots with labels on the sides and send them in with you applications and so on
4) once they reply with a yes, you are on your way and you will definitely earn that internship!
5) if the reply is not interested, then dont give up, keep going, every style of fashion is new and cherished and should be shown to the world :)
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
P.S
wishing you the best of luck!
I am 15 and me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month or two now. My boyfriend always tells ME to kiss HIM he wont ever make the first move. Then when I say no he keeps on pushing the subject,asking me to kiss him and he then starts kissing my neck and rubbing certain areas, what do I do?!?!
1) if you are comfortable with him doing that, then while hes kissing your neck, kiss his neck, peck his cheek, lips, or do something that will get him to sweeten up
2) if you are uncomfortable of what he is doing then ask him to give you some time, and tell him about how you are always safer when the guy makes the first move
3) perhaps he disagreed and continued with his actions, you could consult in breaking up with him, or talking to him in a serious tone then stating the consequences
4) If not, try to play along and do what he does until he takes the first move on his own or give him some time
hope this helps :),
~gamergirlxoxo
okayy so in the beginning i really liked this guy lets call him george and i told this guy (lets call him rick) i told him because lately weve gotten closer and i feel like i can trust him but i definately dont have feelings rick but i know for a fact that he has feelings for me. also my other friend lets call her rose found out about my strong feelings for george and well she told her friend "mike" about it and mike knows so mike goes and tells "danny" and then danny goes and tells george! now rick is in love with me george is ignoring me and mike and danny always make fun of me when im by george. how do i tell rick that im never gonna like him as more than a friend and how do i tell george that i like him but if he doest like me i dont want it to be weird??? please help my life is so confusingg
1) talk to Rick sweetly, and tell him you have been gaining a crush on george and ask Rick if he likes you, if he says yes, then be casual and say thats great but i would really like it if we could just stay friends for now, (or something like that)
2) if Rick gets upset, give him some time to settle down his feelings
3) ask George to talk to you later, and play it cool and dont get over excited
4)If george agrees to talk, then confront him and be like: george, I like you more than a friend, but if you dont like me, then i understand (or something like that)
5) he George just wants to be friends, then let the friendship blossom and play cool and eventually things will start working out
:D hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
Heres my problem, I'm just a guy, who is really social and can talk to chicks without a problem. The thing every girl I like seems to be getting hooked up. I don't to be only known as the funny guy. How do I get a girl to know I like her without being desperate and obvious?
1) lmfao im a girl and lets just say i knew a guy like that who liked me, and things went well
anyways, what you could do is, try to get to know the girl you like better and make her feel good about herself
2) if she gets hooked up, stick around, chances are, she will slowly get closer to you and grow a crush on you
3)girls like it when guys seem to talk to them well without going all insane-flirt type, (well every girl is different) but try to send her some signs that you like her and spend much more time with her
4) relationships and crushes take time to blossom sometimes :D be patient and it will eventually come your way
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
P.S
If you feel like you get sent out of the picture, fight for her, be sweet, caring and funny and do many things that may grab her attention
Plus, compliment a lot, girls love compliments
hope this helps
So about two weeks (sat. apr2) ago me and this guy went to my school together where we really hit it off. He kissed me a couple times and it was just amazing.
During the next week he said how he could really see us together sometime soon, so I was pretty happy. (:
So then the next weekend (sat. apr 9) we went out on a date again. We both had a really great time and he said how we should definitely go out again. So I took that as a good sign. Then I didnt hear from at all until thursday, the 14. And even then our convo. didn't last long! I haven't heard from him since and I'm just really confused about what's going on. It is spring break, so I'm pretty sure he's on vacation so that would make sense, but still!
He acted extremely interested in me, we both had a great time together at both dates, and now what! I'm so confused. What do you think?
1) honestly, trust me i have been through the EXACT same thing, though he was my bf and i ended up dumping him and now we're like bro and sis anyways, what i think you should consider is: give him a chance, he is really interested to you but you should just wait for him to gather up everything
2)if hes on vacation, who knows if he goes on the computer there often? he probably cant in some way but dont be confused, once hes back he will relive what you two had before spring break
3) just stay happy :) cuz everything will work out fine, and if you cant see to reach him or contact him, send him a message on email or facebook, or call him and ask a couple friends where he is
4) dont forget, he will repatch everything back up when hes back
hope this helps
gamergirlxoxo
18/F.
Last year of high school, and i never thought i'd grow to hate all my lifelong friends.
I was best friends with this one girl for 6 years, she turned out to be like mentally insane. she was CONSTANTLY jealous of me. it came to the point, where if i even told her a guy looked in my direction, she wouldn't talk to me for the rest of the day. If i made a new friend, she would say all these horrible lies about them, to me and other people.
So, that friendship ended a few months ago, and she took a good chunk of her followers with her.
So, then I have this other friend, Callie who is really nice and she is like my best friend now. She has this other friend Skylar, who i used to think was pretty cool, and we'd all hang out. but Skylar is like a minnie version of my old best friend! She is turning Callie against me. Callie and i ALWAYS hang out every weekend, and now all of a sudden this weekend she is 'busy' she doesn't have a job or anything, so i don't know how she can be so busy she can't hang out with me, and the other day i had callies phone, and i saw skylar talking about me and she was all jealous that we hung out without her, even though skylar was INVITED. she was like "what is jaci your new best friend now?" i've known callie way longer then skylar.
i don't know what to do. :( everyone is always getting jealous about stupid stuff..and callie and a couple other girls are all the friends i have left. how do i handle this? i don't want to lose callie as a friend just because of skylar.
1) OMG i have been through the EXACT same thing, and i let go of all my really friends and stuff and i had a bff who was callie, but she was always jealous and wasted so i let her go and now how better friends, what you could do is: talk to callie about this skylar problem, and tell her that you and callie are friends and you shouldnt let anyone get in the middle of it
2) talk to skylar and tell her she should hang out more with u guyz, that way she wont be as jealous and will start to sweeten up to you
3) have all of them, including you, to meet up and talk about what bothers each of you and think of ways to solve all your problems
4) if not, tell callie what skylar has been saying about you, and ask her if she can help make her stop that stuff
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
Last night I had sex, but for some reason he couldn't get me wet, so I definitely irritated my inner lips. I woke up this morning & they're completely swollen, red, & in so much pain. It hurts to sit & walk. How can I get rid of the swelling ?
your body may have not been in the producing stage of getting wet yet at that moment
2) check with a doctor so he can provide you with antibiotic cream or so on
3) stay away from intercourse until your body is back on track and the swelling has stopped or else your body could cause more swelling and it would be worse
4) hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo