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My brother has met the love of his life, and they are talking about getting engaged- our families have already met, and he has talked to her parents about it. They are going to officially get engaged, i'm thinking within the next 2-3 months.
A couple months ago, our families met. I am very much attracted to her brother, who is going to be my future brother in-law. This is such an awkward/difficult situation for me to be in. I found myself attracted to him physically, personality-wise, etc., and it seemed like the attraction was possibly mutual, but then again, he's a really nice guy, and it could have meant nothing. Either way, I feel like there's nothing I can do about this.
We are both facebook friends, and i messaged him a couple times a couple months ago, to be nice and see if he would initiate anything (wishful thinking, on my part). But I haven't kept in touch with him since...I just keep on thinking about how I feel so attracted to him, and how he is going to be my brother in law before I know it. I don't know what to do about this...my brother knows how I feel about him, but we have not talked about it since I told him (a couple months back). I feel like I want to just get over this, since it is a very difficult situation to be in, but at the same time, I cannot help how I feel about him. Any thoughts on what I can or should do about this? (link)
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Hi Hunni,
I understand it may seem like a hopeless situation but the key words are 'Brother-in-Law' and he will be your brother's brother-in-law not yours. Relationships between siblings who are blood relations is wrong, not relationships between those related by marriage. So if you like this guy, tell him how you feel, if he doesn't feel the same way you will have to try move past this and not let it affect your family, but there is the possibility that he does return your feelings.
Either way, you should talk to him, at the very least to avoid any awkwardness at the wedding.
Good luck and I hope it works out for you.
Regards C-77
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Question Posted Sunday April 3 2011, 8:37 pm
Ok.13/f
I have a bf and i loved him so much.I still love him but i dont know if he still likes me.
I get signs sometimes that he doesnt like me.
Most Times:
He always hold my hand.
Want to go out with me.
Wants to kiss mi.
Wants to share food with me.
Invites mi to come by his house with him and his parents.
Always watching me(Sometimes i might be on my black berry and he just stares at me and when I look up he looks away).
Sometimes:
He teases me (Like if i wear something he doesnt like ,Its ugly)
Talks about hot girls around me,BUT Only when his friends are there(i talk about hot guys BUT not like he does) i say a simple(I saw this cute guy today,BAM i done) (link)
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Hi Huni,
From the sounds of it your boyfriend is still very much into you, the odd occasions he is acting like a jerk are when he is around his mates, this is normal guy behaviour - he is trying to be a big man in front of his mates.
Let him know how you feel, don't sound as if you're mad, just say in a calm off hand manner, that it bothers you and you sometimes wonder if he still likes you when he does it. This will either bring the declaration of undying love or a playful don't be daft.
Hope this helps.
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