My name is Devyn, well obviously you can tell that from my username. Middle name marie. Again that is probably obvious. I am extremely outgoing, definitely loud, never shy. Never have been shy, considering how I would run around my house naked when I was little. (;
Sometimes I feel like my life has gone by so fast. First I'm 3 years old playing in my sandbox then the next thing I know I'm in highschool. I learned in that time that life is going to throw you curve balls, and if you cant hit them, catch them, and throw em right back.
Gender: Female
Member Since: March 15, 2011
Answers: 12
Last Update: April 4, 2011
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OK i have a huge stomach ,I hate it .My mom says if you stand up straight and look down and you dont see your toes you are to big.I have dun it and i see my toes most of my foot.
When my dad was working before he retired he was a health inspector so he used to bring home losts of fruits and vegetables.
I lost loads of weight from not eating junk fod but just the fruits and vegetables.Now that there is no more i just started eatting JUnk food (chocolates and loads of food)and my tummy is gettingbig again:(How do i get rid of it (Im 13/f) (link)
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Alright when I was young I was having the same problem. My mom took my bathing suit shopping and I was horrified. It was then when I realized I had to get my life on track. My mom told me about a quick and fast not diet 'lifestyle' choice you can make. It is proven that young kids lose weight 5 time FASTER than adults. CRAZY I know. You only have to do a few simple things. For one, cut out ALL sugar. Don't eat anything that has more then 7 grams of sugar. Eat things HIGH in fiber. Buy some 'fiber one' cereal, yogurt, bars and whatever else you can get. Second you NEED to exercise even if it is as simple as walking everyday, The more you exercise the faster you get results and the better you feel. This really works. I lost 10 pounds in 2 weeks. Try it. Its all about resisting temptation and sticking to a plan. Goodluck. (:
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ok well i really like this one guy at my highschool and were both in the same grade and hes in 2 of my classes im one of the prettiest girls in my grade and i have lots of friends, i sit next to him in the classes that we share,he already knows that i like him and his bestfriend told me he was just shy to talk to me,and everythime i try to say hello i freeze up and just cant think of anything to say i really want to be more than friends but i just know how plzzzzzzzzzzzz help!? (link)
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Okay for starters a girl should never have to do anything specific to get a guy to talk/notice her. He either is going to notice you or he wont. But if you really want to pursue a relationship with this guy who you say is 'shy' it's going to take a lot of work. Maybe you break the ice. Don't expect him to start all the conversations. Maybe you being all choked up when you talk to him just adds on to his shyness. If he knows you're confident and willing to give the relationship a shot he might open up. One thing you don't want to do is stay hung up on him forever. If he doesn't open up soon, just move on Life's to short to spend it waiting around for some guy when there are plenty of other ones out there. -goodluck-
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i am very under age for sex but i cant wait to have it. i also cant wait to have a shower with my bf and btw how old do u have yo be to do that. i have tryed masterbating but is there a way to do it without putting anything in you??
btw im a female and im 12 (link)
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I know this question was asked a while ago but I would just like to say how shocked I was to read this. I mean yeah I had thoughts like this when I was 12 but that was only because I was fascinated with the kissing scenes in the movies and things like that.
Ill start out with the heavy, sex. Listen you are 12 years old, and although you think you want this, if you did decide to have sex, one your 'boyfriend' probably wont be very experienced and he could end up really hurting you. And two I guarantee you will be really scared. And after you do it wish you could change it back. So my advice to you hon is, wait. You will enjoy sex SO much more if you wait for the right time, right guy, and right age.
And as for masturbation there are many ways to do that. Like, sit on a jet in a hot tub or, lets see, If not that, you could just use a hose to Shoot water right into a pleasurable, maybe using the cooling button on your hairdryer.. no heat that might irritate it.. but blow cool air into your vaginal are. That might do the trick. And whatever you do in terms of masturbation don't feel weird about it, You are definitely not the first girl to do it. (: fo
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My daughter is 13 and I'd like for her to start paying for her new clothes, accesories, and basically everything. Of course I would still pay for her food and keep a roof over her head. She doesn't have a job but she gets $5 a week for allowance. Do you think it's okay to make her start paying for stuff? (link)
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Okay I don't want to be harsh or anything but common shes 13. In what, middle school. Yeah goodluck having her find a decent job. If you had her paying for her stuff, it would be with the allowance money so, you would be paying for it anyway cause the allowance money comes from your pockets. This is just my opinion, but I think she would be pretty upset with it. Maybe have her pay for the things that she wants extra. Of she really needs new jeans, don't make her pay for those. But if you two are ever out and she sees these earrings she 'has to have ' she should definitely pay for those herself. Wait until shes at least in high school to expect that much of her.
Again this is just my opinion
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My former best friend is a boy. He was the only one who could understand me. Now that we're not friends anymore, I'm confused. I'm jealous when he's with other girls, and I feel crumpled when he's laughing with others, not me. When I see him, my heart pounds and I feel happy. Do I love him or not? I'm so confused! (link)
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According to what you've shared it could be one of two things. Love of course. You might be head over heels for this guy and just discovering it. A lot of amazing relationships/marriages begin with a strong friendship.
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It could be jealousy. Maybe you're just feeling replaced by him finding newer friends. No girl wants to be replaced. Even if there was no romantic connection.
My advice to you is to talk to him about it. You never knew maybe he misses you too. And gets jealous when you're with other friends. But you'll never know until you try. Take the first step. Work it out.
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My boyfriend and I are in a great relationship. We are very open with each other, no secrets, constant trust, and we are always around each other.
He admitted to me once that "I know I am kind of a player, you are the only girl on my mind all the time." meaning he is quite a flirt, he's still faithful to me and there's no one else he thinks about, blah blah blah. Although he has my complete trust, I am insecure. He knows it, too, and we're working on it.
Earlier we were walking together and a girl passed by. He said in a quiet voice, "She's cute." I could hear it and I looked at him but didn't say anything. Who am I to control his eyes? I don't care if he thinks another girl is pretty or cute, because I am not the jealous type. Still I wonder about him. I wonder if he knows sometimes it hurts. It bothers me a bit even if I am not jealous. Should I be concerned? (link)
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It's funny how many of these stories I can relate too. I was in a relationship with the greatest guy, he was absolutely wonderful but there was one problem, he was the BIGGEST flirt. All the girls were attracted to him. And before we were together he was with this other girl and the whole time behind her back he was telling me he liked me. I'm sure your boyfriend didn't do that but anyways, you should let him know that it bothers you. Tell him you don't expect him to only see you. I mean I'm sure you look at other guys. Just let him know that he should keep his thoughts to himself. And if you're feeling brave, let him know you're insecure. Maybe he'll have more sympathy.
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well im getting braces and i was wondering eat u can and camnot eat (link)
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This is kind of embarrassing but I still have the sheet my Orthodontist gave me when I first got my braces you should definitely avoid ;
HARD FOODS: ice, nuts, popcorn, crunchy peanutbutter
CHEWY & STICKY FOODS: Bagels, caramel, and NO GUM
SUGARY FOODS: Sodas, cakes, cookies, and most candy bars
If you must eat bagels and pizza crust, break it into smaller pieces.
You can still eat cakes and cookies and such but you should be LIMITING the amount of sugar you eat.
-hope this was helpful- [:
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my name is Rachel and my ex boyfriend's name is kenny he just broke up with me this past weekend and at first it didn't bother me at all and then later on I became depressed. I go to a mental health center 5 days a week and he goes there to and I have to look at his face every day and it makes me more upset and ever since he broke up with me i've been drinking untill I get drunk every day and smoking weed until I get high.
He broke up with me becouse he thought I was cheating on him when I kept telling him I wasn't and I don't know why he would think that I would cheat on him when i've never cheated on him in the whole year we was dating. please tell me How I can get over him? (link)
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I hate to break it to you honey but there is no true way to just get over someone. The best method you have is, time. And strength. One thing that definitely wont help is hookups. It will make you feel better at that time but the next day, the pain will be back. As for the drugs and the drinking, that wont solve, anything. Just like sex it will mask the pain, but it will not cure it. It will only mask it.
I went through the same thing. My boyfriend accused me of cheating on him multiple times. With a guy 5 years older than me. I know, it absurd what guys will accuse us of. But when they do, that's just a sign of insecurities. It's kind of there thing, hurt us first before we can hurt them. Even sometimes men will accuse us of something they have done.
Be strong, if he comes crawling back to you, turn him around. You deserve better. Don't let him effect your life anymore. You owe it to yourself to get better.
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okay so the boy i like knows i like him and he had a girlfriend and they just broke up well he broke up with her because she cheated on him. And i dont know if i should like talk to him more or something because i can tell he is still hurt because when he told me i could see the hurt in his eyes but i think this is the perfect chance to get him and i am just confused on what i should do any ideas??? (link)
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Okay, I don't think you should jump into anything with him too fast. I mean what girl wants to be the 'rebound' anyways right? Maybe you two could start out as friends to see if some feelings could be developed. I mean you never know maybe you two are only meant to be good friends nothing more. If you want my opinion I think you all are far too young to have cheating problems. That seems so ridiculous to me. But that's besides the point. Take things slow, don't rush any of it. Remember you're young. There will be PLENTY of other guys. [:
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im still in high school, a male, and recently my dad lost his job. He was getting paid really well and his company was paying him for 6 months, and now that 6 months is up and now he doesnt get paid anymore.
the thing is, hes working now, kinda, like he is working for an insurance company but he says he doesnt get paid and only get paid comission. lately i've been worried ass hell for him and our family. My mom still has her job and makes good money, but my dad is the one im worried about. i just dont understand it and why i have to worry about it. I mean, he is a smart guy, went to a good college, and got a degree in engeneering and have always managed to make it through. but lately i saw his mail and it says he hasnt been paying the mortgage on his condo lately and also that our car insurance has been cancelled.
all these things hasnt taken affect, at least i dont think so, but whenever i try to talk to my dad about it, he kinds ignores it and doesnt seem to care and just simply tells me not to worry. but i've been going crazy lately and i cant even think about anything else besides his money.
i dont get it, and what makes me more mad is that other people at my school are rich and have nothing to worry about, and they dont even deserve it. All they do is go to trash parties and get in their nice cars their parents bought for them, and im sitting here, not even thinking about going out with friends, but instead worrying about my dads money issue. I dont wanna be in a shithole or broke or anything, which we arent. I mean, out family has been pretty well of since like ever, but i dont know about now. My dad wont say anything about it and im really starting to worry.
Please help me, i dont know what to do, and i feel like i need to worry about it. Ive been crying and i just cant think of anything to think about or what to do.... please.. (link)
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First let me say I am extremely sorry for you. A while back my father got laid off from his well paying job. I know what a difficult time this must be for your family. The best thing I can tell you is your dad is probably feeling really worthless right now. He probably feel like he has been stripped of his pride. Which is why he never wants to talk about the bills.
My dad went into almost a deep depression. All you can do is be supportive of him, and encourage him to keep job hunting. When talking about money situations make sure you make it clear that it isn't necessarily your dads fault. Because I guarantee you he thinks it's his fault. And is feeling a lot of guilt.
And with the mail, that might not have been the smartest choice going through it but hey, you were worried. I understand you wanting to get to the bottom of it. Your dad sounds like a wonderful man, but like my dad he is probably sinking, fast. So pull him back up, be supportive, loving and do everything you can to help him along.
-hope this was helpful to you- Best of luck to you.
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for the past week, my 'dowstairs' has been itching/burning. its not around the actual vagina or inside, its more the lips/clitoris region. I havent had sex or anythin close to it in a year & 9 months so it cant be anythin from sexual contact. I bought a new thong & im thinkin maybe I forgot to wash them & now im irritated? what do you think I should do & what is this?
thank you! (link)
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Okay if it just started recently it could be from the thong you didn't wash, But thats pretty unlikely. This question is kind of personal but do you shave down there? which is perfectly okay, but maybe you have razor burn down in that area that you are unfamiliar with. Or perhaps you cut yourself shaving and don't even know. Most cuts itch when they are healing. Hope this was helpful to you. Don't stress out to much. It's probably fine.
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I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and we haven't had sex yet. We get along GREAT and I'm so happy to be with him. The problem is that when we first met I told him that I was a virgin. I'm sad to say that I cheated on my boyfriend with another guy for about a month and the other guy took my virginity. My boyfriend still has no idea it happened.
I've recently told my boyfriend that I really, really want to have sex and he said that we can start doing it. He told me how excited he was to be with me since we're both virgins. :(
How do I tell him that I'm not a virgin anymore? I really want to tell him so he knows but I don't know how to without really hurting his feelings. I can't just pretend I'm not because I had sex with the other guy A LOT so I know I don't even feel like a virgin any more and I'm not going to bleed. What do I do? (link)
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When I read this is was totally and completely shocked. Believe it or not I went through the same situation. So right off the bat you should know that I am not judging you. And I know what you must be going through. Cause even though you cheated I'm sure that you most definitely still have feelings for your boyfriend. I wish I could tell you that he wont be upset but, that would be a lie. He's going to be furious, he might cry, definitely scream. The best you can do is tell the complete truth. Don't leave anything out. Better to tell the whole truth than to sugar coat it. It will only make things worse. Make sure no matter what if he asks you questions, answer all of them truthfully. When telling your partner you cheated honesty works best. One final thing If he decides he wants to still be with you then you should be very thankful, and after then, if and when you sleep with him, simply tell him that even though this wasn't your first time having sex, this is your first time having sex with someone you love. That should make him feel much better about himself and the stability of your relationship. - sorry for writing so much- (; goodluck hon.
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