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underage but wanting sex PLEASE HELP
i am very under age for sex but i cant wait to have it. i also cant wait to have a shower with my bf and btw how old do u have yo be to do that. i have tryed masterbating but is there a way to do it without putting anything in you??
btw im a female and im 12
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I know this question was asked a while ago but I would just like to say how shocked I was to read this. I mean yeah I had thoughts like this when I was 12 but that was only because I was fascinated with the kissing scenes in the movies and things like that.
Ill start out with the heavy, sex. Listen you are 12 years old, and although you think you want this, if you did decide to have sex, one your 'boyfriend' probably wont be very experienced and he could end up really hurting you. And two I guarantee you will be really scared. And after you do it wish you could change it back. So my advice to you hon is, wait. You will enjoy sex SO much more if you wait for the right time, right guy, and right age.
And as for masturbation there are many ways to do that. Like, sit on a jet in a hot tub or, lets see, If not that, you could just use a hose to Shoot water right into a pleasurable, maybe using the cooling button on your hairdryer.. no heat that might irritate it.. but blow cool air into your vaginal are. That might do the trick. And whatever you do in terms of masturbation don't feel weird about it, You are definitely not the first girl to do it. (: fo
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Hi, I am old enough to be your grandparent. I am an advisor on this site for questions just like yours. I will tell you the truth; how you care to follow my advice is totally up to you. You have actually asked three questions; I will try to answer all three.
We receive a lot of letters like your. In answering to the others I have found a web site that I will provide a link for. After reading my advice and before making a decision I would like you and your boyfriend to look at this website. It is all about first time sex.
To begin with; sex between two consenting people; generally speaking they are adults or older adolescents, is a beautiful thing. To totally enjoy sex you need privacy, comfort and security. At your present age it is doubtful that you will find all three.
Privacy, comfort and security are more for the women than the man. A women needs all three in order to relax and enjoy sex. She is the one who's body is being invaded and if she cannot relax and is not secure in her surroundings or is fearful of someone walking in on her, then most likely she will not enjoy the sex and probably will not orgasm.
Sex at your age: There is no law that says you have to be a certain age to have sex or to shower together. At age 12 I would say you are way to young to be having sex. While you body may be capable; you do not have the maturity needed to have sex or to acquire the needed precautions to avoid getting pregnant.
At your present age you should be learning how to fend boys off, to keep them from groping you. That's part of teenage life. When you get a bit older and more mature you might let your boyfriend feel your breasts and maybe even finger you and you might even give him a handjob. Most importantly you both keep your clothes on. Right know keeping your clothes on is your best defense against pregnancy.
From groping and fingering you can then move on to oral sex. What this does is help relieve the raging hormones both you and your boyfriend experience with puberty.
You asked about masturbation: Women experience orgasm in two ways. Some are vaginal and some are clitoral. By vaginal I mean that the only way they can orgasm is through penetration of the vagina. During masturbation a women will stick one or two fingers or a dildo in her vagina to bring herself to orgasm. Clitoral orgasm is brought on through the stimulation of the clitoris. Many women use a combination of both clitoral and vaginal stimulation during masturbation.
Masturbation is the best and safest way to relieve sexual tension for someone your age. Masturbation is practiced by over 95% of the population, even married adults and used as part of foreplay. Most all recognized religions approve or condone masturbation.
I know I have been long winded her, but you asked a big question.
My advice is you wait to have sex as you are far to young. You may have entered puberty but you are still a child. To start having sex now is something you will regret in later years. There is also a double standard to think about. While your boyfriend will be seen as a big man; you will be given the label of slut or worse. Don't rely on your boyfriend to keep your sexual escapades a secret, he won't and he can't. Teenage boys a wired to tell the world, so to speak, when they become men. Becoming a man to a teenage boy is the first time he has intercourse.
Please look at the following link before you make any decision about having sex.
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thats how i felt when i was 12 , but since your a female , 9 × out of 10 its gonna because me and my girlfriend have sex and depending on how "big" your bf is expect pain , but if you do have sex dont let him "stick" you , start out with bj's and eating because you dont wanna get pregnant but thats all i got to say soooo i hope that helped (PS : if ur gonna do it , dont do it at home , cheers)
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You definitely need to wait. It might sound like fun and all that but there are always consequences to it and you don't want to get all caught up in that, especially at the age of 12.
I'd wait till you are way older to have sex. You might want it now but you will end up regretting it and just might end up feeling used, and trust me, it's a horrible feeling.
It has an emotional impact on you too so being 12, it would probably drive you up a wall and you'd regret it so much.
Plus, if you and your boyfriend have sex, that's probably all he's gonna want from you. So just wait it out.
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well your to young to be thinkin like tha and you should wait till you get older cause sex aint just bout doin it you got to think bout wat could happen you kno and bout masterbatin na theres no other way u gotta put sumthin in well to my understandin but for real bout sex wait on it n see cause if you didnt have sex wit your boyfriend yet you should hold out on it cause sex is a big ass step if you dont think im right its on you but trust i kno even though u might think i dont cause im a guy but i kno hopfully i helped a lil n if not hopfully sumone can
but if you think i did help n want sum more advice just message me
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