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Worried over flirting.
My boyfriend and I are in a great relationship. We are very open with each other, no secrets, constant trust, and we are always around each other.
He admitted to me once that "I know I am kind of a player, you are the only girl on my mind all the time." meaning he is quite a flirt, he's still faithful to me and there's no one else he thinks about, blah blah blah. Although he has my complete trust, I am insecure. He knows it, too, and we're working on it.
Earlier we were walking together and a girl passed by. He said in a quiet voice, "She's cute." I could hear it and I looked at him but didn't say anything. Who am I to control his eyes? I don't care if he thinks another girl is pretty or cute, because I am not the jealous type. Still I wonder about him. I wonder if he knows sometimes it hurts. It bothers me a bit even if I am not jealous. Should I be concerned?
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It's funny how many of these stories I can relate too. I was in a relationship with the greatest guy, he was absolutely wonderful but there was one problem, he was the BIGGEST flirt. All the girls were attracted to him. And before we were together he was with this other girl and the whole time behind her back he was telling me he liked me. I'm sure your boyfriend didn't do that but anyways, you should let him know that it bothers you. Tell him you don't expect him to only see you. I mean I'm sure you look at other guys. Just let him know that he should keep his thoughts to himself. And if you're feeling brave, let him know you're insecure. Maybe he'll have more sympathy.
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Since you two have already figured out the problem, it means you can also work together to find a solution. So he said that another girl is cute. That's pretty normal. I mean if you saw a rather attractive boy, I'm sure the thought would spark up in your mind. Don't be concerned about it just yet if all he's doing is little things like that. It's pretty normal for a guy, especially after he admitted to you the type of guy he is. Don't give yourself troubles which don't exist. Just work together on your insecurities and things should be fine :)
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