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telling that special someone you like them & after youuu tell them they stop talkinqq to you
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Then they obviously aren't worth your time or effort. If they give up on your friendship after you sharing the way you feel, then why should you care? Don't go wasting time worrying about people who don't worry about you :)
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My boyfriend and I are in a great relationship. We are very open with each other, no secrets, constant trust, and we are always around each other.
He admitted to me once that "I know I am kind of a player, you are the only girl on my mind all the time." meaning he is quite a flirt, he's still faithful to me and there's no one else he thinks about, blah blah blah. Although he has my complete trust, I am insecure. He knows it, too, and we're working on it.
Earlier we were walking together and a girl passed by. He said in a quiet voice, "She's cute." I could hear it and I looked at him but didn't say anything. Who am I to control his eyes? I don't care if he thinks another girl is pretty or cute, because I am not the jealous type. Still I wonder about him. I wonder if he knows sometimes it hurts. It bothers me a bit even if I am not jealous. Should I be concerned? (link)
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Since you two have already figured out the problem, it means you can also work together to find a solution. So he said that another girl is cute. That's pretty normal. I mean if you saw a rather attractive boy, I'm sure the thought would spark up in your mind. Don't be concerned about it just yet if all he's doing is little things like that. It's pretty normal for a guy, especially after he admitted to you the type of guy he is. Don't give yourself troubles which don't exist. Just work together on your insecurities and things should be fine :)
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This guy in school told one of my friends that he had a crush on me but apparently he didnt tell her to have her tell me because I only found out because she told one of my other friends and she accidently burted it out to me. So now I know and I want to know if he really likes me because he doesn't act like he does. Like when I try to talk to him he doesnt say much and he doesnt really do things that hint at him liking me. I like him and i really want him to do something to prove that he really does like me and not have to go on what my friend said. What should I do? How will I know if he does like me and is just being shy about it or if he really doesnt like me? 15/f (link)
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The best way to get it is straight from him. If you like him, I'll assume you two are already on talking terms. So try to get to know him better as a person. Spend more time with him, whether its at school or just hanging out. But you have to remember to be patient, so take your time in learning more about him. Then gradually, drop hints to him that you like him. Flirt/tease him a little and see how he responds to that. He may be the type to not show his emotions as he is probably scared of rejection, so try to make the first move. It may make it easier for him to admit that he does like you. And if he doesn't really respond to your hints, then he probably isn't interested. But if you still really want to know, you should just be straight about it and ask, to avoid any future "what if"'s.
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