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The Worries of My Relationship
If you haven't seen my previous questions, I am fifteen and dating a wonderful guy. We have been dating for about two months.
Because I have been physically, mentally, and emotionally scarred from my past relationships, I am rather insecure. I get afraid my boyfriend will be upset over a strained subject and close me out, or I will lose him for a stupid reason. Even though I am fully aware he is only here to love me, and he tells me all the time there is nothing to worry about. He is helping me with my insecurities, and I feel like they are fading. Sometimes though I can feel it there, but I am keen to remind myself. I constantly worry he'll hurt me. It makes me so guilty too, because I know he would never ever hurt me purposefully. He is a respectful guy. I am so crazy.
Any ideas to cope with my insecure self?
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Relax. This guy is really nice if he is helping you out with your problems. You would obviously not trust him completely because of your scarred past.. But with time you should learn how to let go and TRUST him :)
And just don't think TOO much.. just calm down and enjoy your time with him! I am sure he won't dissapoint you.
hope I hepled.
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That's great he is trying to help you, and no you are not crazy:D
but you really should see a therapist, they will help you face your fears and become more comfortable with yourself and him. You'll feel less guilty as well, with the knowledge that you are healing through professional help. A therapist will help you trust again
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Insecurity is very normal. Everyone goes through it. You shouldn't treat your boyfriend as if he were in those past relationships. He's a different person so he's different then them. If you're so worried he'll hurt you, he probably will hurt you because you pushed him away.
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