I am 15 and me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month or two now. My boyfriend always tells ME to kiss HIM he wont ever make the first move. Then when I say no he keeps on pushing the subject,asking me to kiss him and he then starts kissing my neck and rubbing certain areas, what do I do?!?!
1) While your boyfriend is kissing your neck slowly lift his head up and kiss his lips softly. Start with a small peck
2) If you feel comfortable with the kiss and are ready for a [ french kiss ] that's tongue action then allow him to take lead or meet him half way.
- It's ok if you're not the best kisser your first time it's always room for improvement.
Another thing if you don't like him feeling you tell him to STOP before it leads elsewhere. Good luck
Oh before i forgot if you are passive and when it comes to kissing tell him to meet you half way , he leans in 50% then you lean in the other 50% and start off with a peck. [ Cherokee's advice column | Ask Cherokee A Question ]
gamergirlxoxo answered Monday April 18 2011, 8:45 pm: 1) if you are comfortable with him doing that, then while hes kissing your neck, kiss his neck, peck his cheek, lips, or do something that will get him to sweeten up
2) if you are uncomfortable of what he is doing then ask him to give you some time, and tell him about how you are always safer when the guy makes the first move
3) perhaps he disagreed and continued with his actions, you could consult in breaking up with him, or talking to him in a serious tone then stating the consequences
4) If not, try to play along and do what he does until he takes the first move on his own or give him some time
hope this helps :),
~gamergirlxoxo [ gamergirlxoxo's advice column | Ask gamergirlxoxo A Question ]
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