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girl problems (you answered me earlier today)
Hi! You answered my question earlier and it really helped! I just wanted to add a couple of things.. The girl I was talking about had a relationship first semester with a guy, but he "hit it and quit it" and she was super depressed.. and I was the next serious guy in her life. So I feel that she also might be upset about this. When she broke it off with me she kept giving me reasons that seemed fake and kept saying that her feelings changed.. but I think she is still upset about this, and I want to prove to her that I'm not a douche like every other guy. I want her to see that I'm different and hooking up with a bunch of people (which is what she is doing now) won't help her. I actually care about her. And I think her being mean to me was a way of hiding her feelings for me. Like she wanted to make me angry with her so I would forget about her.. but I think she likes me. The things I said to her were really mean and immature but I apologized.. so I don't know if she still thinks badly of me because of it. Thanks so much for your help!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
1) hmm lets see, you should confront her and tell her how amazing you think she is, but if you are the shy type, try to send her a note, or act like it
2) ask her if shes okay about the 'things' she has been through that broke her heart, because right now, she might reallly need someone's shoulder to cry on
3) comfort her and tell her shes way to good for him and brighten her up and make her laugh more often, girls like guys who do that
4) tell her you never meant those words that you said to her, and they were just a reaction to whatever was happening that made you say it
5) tell her she looks nice or you like what shes wearing
6) talk to her and bring up the subject of you having a girlfriend, especially one that even thanked you for not just dumping them or a friend for not just ditching them after all they have been through, she may lighten up to you
7) if you think she likes you, then give her nice and dont pull back instead of all the anger she wants you to react within, or just play along and be cool, it may drive her insane, but possibly, she iwll come running to you
8) lastly, ask her if she is feeling bad about anything, and use this line or something like this: well if you need anyone to talk to, i got your back
or something like that, just to help her get through he problems, and be a sweet friend first, dont just jump into her love life yet, let her get her problems straight then ease your way in
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
P.S
I wish you best of luck!
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