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How should I go about kissing him?
Me and my boyfriend lets call him Kyle, have been going out for 4 years. We have never kissed or even hugged. The most we have done is hold hands. How should I go about kissing him?
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Hi,
I would wait until you two are talking casually or hanging out in a familiar place, then sit close to him (if you aren't already). Being in a comfortable setting, talking casually makes it that much easier to kiss someone. I bet once you kiss your bf, he will be (easily) more open to other flirting/touching. Kisses tend to reveal the door to a whole new world of discovery.
I would suggest holding hands first, since you are already comfortable with that. It also helps to turn your body towards him, then make eye contact and try to hold it for at least 5 seconds. This causes him to anticipate what you are about to share. Once you are in a comfortable spot and know he is focusing on you, that would be the best time to lean in and go for it. You will feel a moment when there is this strong connection with him; that is the best time. He may pause on you for a few seconds, look into your eyes and smile... you will then tilt your head a little and lean in pressing your lips against his. The tilting of your head helps to adjust your position to his, allowing an easier kiss on both ends.
Don't worry about missing his lips, for as soon as you move in, he will likely move in as well causing a very good collision ;) After initiating that kiss, you won't have to think very much cuz it will all come naturally from there, trust me. If you want, look into his eyes while kissing; it will make it that much more special. As long as your boyfriend is comfortable, you have him focused on you, and then kiss him... I trust there will only be fireworks <3
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Kissing is one of those things that come naturally, If you do not know how to kiss then here is a link that can give you some tips.
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Just be calm and relax, If you two have been dating for 4 years then you should have no problem trusting your partner. If you mess up the first time, It's okay just try again you will eventually get the hang of it.
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Really? Just kiss him. 4 years is a long time, I'm assuming you should be comfortable enough around him.
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