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same song, different verse.


Question Posted Saturday April 16 2011, 10:35 am

18/F.

Last year of high school, and i never thought i'd grow to hate all my lifelong friends.

I was best friends with this one girl for 6 years, she turned out to be like mentally insane. she was CONSTANTLY jealous of me. it came to the point, where if i even told her a guy looked in my direction, she wouldn't talk to me for the rest of the day. If i made a new friend, she would say all these horrible lies about them, to me and other people.

So, that friendship ended a few months ago, and she took a good chunk of her followers with her.
So, then I have this other friend, Callie who is really nice and she is like my best friend now. She has this other friend Skylar, who i used to think was pretty cool, and we'd all hang out. but Skylar is like a minnie version of my old best friend! She is turning Callie against me. Callie and i ALWAYS hang out every weekend, and now all of a sudden this weekend she is 'busy' she doesn't have a job or anything, so i don't know how she can be so busy she can't hang out with me, and the other day i had callies phone, and i saw skylar talking about me and she was all jealous that we hung out without her, even though skylar was INVITED. she was like "what is jaci your new best friend now?" i've known callie way longer then skylar.

i don't know what to do. :( everyone is always getting jealous about stupid stuff..and callie and a couple other girls are all the friends i have left. how do i handle this? i don't want to lose callie as a friend just because of skylar.


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gamergirlxoxo answered Sunday April 17 2011, 2:17 pm:
1) OMG i have been through the EXACT same thing, and i let go of all my really friends and stuff and i had a bff who was callie, but she was always jealous and wasted so i let her go and now how better friends, what you could do is: talk to callie about this skylar problem, and tell her that you and callie are friends and you shouldnt let anyone get in the middle of it
2) talk to skylar and tell her she should hang out more with u guyz, that way she wont be as jealous and will start to sweeten up to you
3) have all of them, including you, to meet up and talk about what bothers each of you and think of ways to solve all your problems
4) if not, tell callie what skylar has been saying about you, and ask her if she can help make her stop that stuff
hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo

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