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falling out of love with my bf
this guy and i have broken up and gotten back together so many times i lost count but im the one who keeps breaking up with him. . . he loves me and i thought i loved him but i like him more when we aren't going out and then when we get back together little by little i stop liking him we cant even last a week do u think i should break up with him for good or just wait a while longer to c if i change my mind
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A fact of life is that we want what we can not have.
So of course you're going to want him more when you're not together, because you can't nessecarily have him back. Follow?
I think that if each time he keeps saying yes to you asking him back out, then it shows he is kinda emotionally instable at the moment. It'll be best to completely ignore each other for at least a couple of months.
This will do either two things. Either you'll both meet other partners and kinda forget about one another. Or you'll both see that you were made for one another and that youre relationship is deep. Also, i'd say sooner or later he may say no to you. And if he says that, you'll be shocked and want him more. So thats why taking a break from it all for now is best. Hope this helps and good luck :)
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Your only falling in love with him again each time because you lonely without him. You may not know it but it's because you can't have him that you want him. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. If only you could get rid of the fence. Try dating other guys to see if it feels more natural with the other guys. Good Luck! ;-)
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1) wait a couple days and then see if u have feelings for him and only think of the positive happy things of your relationship with him
2) later on, if you are unsure, talk to him and tell him how you like him more when you guys are friends
3) talk to him about how you're falling out of love and only into a friend stage, then tell him if you want, that maybe you might change your mind, but you need some time to think
4) I hope this helps
~gamergirlxoxo
Good Luck!
P.S If it doesnt all work out the way you expected, remember this, there are many guys out there and just maybe, you will find your perfect match :)
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