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What's going on with this guy?
So about two weeks (sat. apr2) ago me and this guy went to my school together where we really hit it off. He kissed me a couple times and it was just amazing.
During the next week he said how he could really see us together sometime soon, so I was pretty happy. (:
So then the next weekend (sat. apr 9) we went out on a date again. We both had a really great time and he said how we should definitely go out again. So I took that as a good sign. Then I didnt hear from at all until thursday, the 14. And even then our convo. didn't last long! I haven't heard from him since and I'm just really confused about what's going on. It is spring break, so I'm pretty sure he's on vacation so that would make sense, but still!
He acted extremely interested in me, we both had a great time together at both dates, and now what! I'm so confused. What do you think?
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As someone who's going through this exact situation right now, I feel your pain. Like you, there were two dates, both of which went great and ended with him expressing interest in seeing me again.
The trouble with men is that they don't always realise they've done anything wrong. If he is on vacation then it's unlikely he's even considered the fact that he's confusing you.
If you can, drop him a casual text asking how he is or mentioning that you haven't heard from him a while. Something along those lines. Just keep it lighthearted and don't give him any hint of the fact that his attitude is bothering you because another trouble with men is that they freak out over really little things (like a girl they were seeing expressing a desire to have contact with them). If he doesn't reply then leave it be. He obviously isn't the amazing guy you thought he was if he can't even be bothered to text you back.
Alternatively, wait until you're sure he's back from vacation and see if he gets in touch. Again, if he doesn't then just forget about it.
I know it's upsetting when someone stops showing an interest in you for no apparent reason but remember that you were fine before you started thinking of him romantically and you'll be fine after too.
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1) honestly, trust me i have been through the EXACT same thing, though he was my bf and i ended up dumping him and now we're like bro and sis anyways, what i think you should consider is: give him a chance, he is really interested to you but you should just wait for him to gather up everything
2)if hes on vacation, who knows if he goes on the computer there often? he probably cant in some way but dont be confused, once hes back he will relive what you two had before spring break
3) just stay happy :) cuz everything will work out fine, and if you cant see to reach him or contact him, send him a message on email or facebook, or call him and ask a couple friends where he is
4) dont forget, he will repatch everything back up when hes back
hope this helps
gamergirlxoxo
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