AWKWARD moments with my boyfriend rubbing my boob!
Question Posted Tuesday April 19 2011, 11:54 am
Me and my boyfriend were watching a movie.and He randomly started touching my boob and rubbing it and I didnt mind it to much so I let it go. He then started rubbing up and down my arm but when I did the same to him his penis rose up in his pants( so much that I could see it) It was very awkward and I dont really want it to happen again lol WHAT DO I DO?
bewise answered Tuesday April 19 2011, 7:13 pm: Hi,
If you don't want to get in that awkward situation, don't start the physical stuff, like rubbing, etc. Guys always start small then work onto bigger stuff, and they will become aroused, and you will see it!
He didn't randomly start rubbing your boob. He would have thought about it for ages trying to get the courage up to do it, and guessing what your reaction might be.
If you let him get away with one small thing, next time he will try that and something bigger.
Try doing different stuff where you are actually busy, but can still be together, enjoying hanging out with each other, like go for a bike ride, rock climbing, walk the dog, do some volunteering somewhere. Anything where you are not in a place to sit, relax and have him start the physical stuff.
I also read your other questions that you had previously written in, and I think your mum would be disappointed if you had sex. It needs to be that you try and hold out, instead of hide it from you. She knows that it will be the best thing for you and she is right.
Your virginity is a once in a lifetime gift to give away, and while you may be really into your boyfriend, I think that when you finally marry your husband, he will be gutted if you gave such and important gift to your boyfriend when you were 15.
And if this guy ends up being your husband, he will be stoked he waited, as anticipation makes it soooo much better. Marriage sex is great! No hassles, no worries about bumming people out, and if you get pregnant it's a joy not an issue! (contraception doesn't work 100% of the time)
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