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He talks about our future and kids!!!


Question Posted Wednesday April 20 2011, 9:09 pm

i've known this guy since the 8th grade, we were like best friends, I could tell him every or anything and trust that he would keep it a secret....we were so close, and we both had a crush on each other but afraid to say...anyways i left the school in 9th grade and lost touch for a year...thats when he asked me if i want to give us a shot and i agreed...then he started acting like an ass, one second he is sweet then the next he makes insulting jokes about me when i'm around his friend and always trying to dictate to me what i can and cannot do. we keep breaking up and getting back together. Now we broke up again because he went too far this time and he keeps ringing my phone off and i'm not answering, i'm confused. HELP!!!!

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Cherokee answered Monday April 25 2011, 12:53 am:
Well by reading what you wrote it sounds like you are confused on staying with him or leaving for good. Am I right? If so i advise you two to talk and tell him how you feel. Guys sometimes need to hear it from us girls mouths how we feel, because what we think they should know they truly don't. Tell him about how you dislike how he treats you around his friends and you don't find anything humerus about the nasty comments he makes. If he makes excuses of why he does it let him know either he needs to change or this is IT!!! A guy shouldn't be sweet one day and mean the next they should always stay sweet. If he isn't treating you like the princess that you are then find another guy that will. He is one out of a million guys that would give you the world so you just have to think... Is he worth the pain? If not move on girl you can find better. Good Luck!

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Xui answered Wednesday April 20 2011, 9:55 pm:
I'm a tad bit confused based on the title and information given as I do not see anything about how he mentioned kids..

However, Based on the information giving it sounds like your friend is controlling. Controlling relationships are not healthy and it is not cool to be insulting towards your spouse just to show off in front of friends. Assuming you are in either 9th or 10th grade now is way too young to be talking about the future. You are a kid, So is he and you should be focusing on trying to get through high school not having babies.

If he is acting like an ass, Leave him. From the sound of it he is playing games with you, If you want a real relationship you might want to look somewhere else.

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