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They say they are my friends


Question Posted Wednesday April 20 2011, 10:14 pm

i'm a 17years old girl and all my life i have been dealing with 'haters' as friends, i've have never had a friend that care more about being there for each other than how i look. I have always been the one to make friends, but somehow its hard to get along with the girls than the boys...and some of them hate me because i get along more with the boys than the girls...My so called girl friends always try to make me feel bad about myself and one of them went as far as telling people that i have 'white liver' this in the caribbean means someone with mix culture sleeps with a lot of guys...what more can i do to let them know i'm not the enemy...please help me!!

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Jennefer answered Thursday April 21 2011, 10:08 pm:
This people are not your friends. Real friends don't treat you that way. I say you don't have to prove anything to them. There is nothing wrong with having guy friends, its less drama and hate. If these girls treat you this way then don't even bother with them. Friends are sopposed to be there for each other not to bring you down.

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Xui answered Wednesday April 20 2011, 11:09 pm:
These aren't friends, Friends don't make racist/insulting remarks towards people. You do not have a point to prove except the fact that you can do better and make new friends. If your friends want to be jerks and spread rumors then let them, Show them you are better by ignoring it and meeting people that will treat you like a friend should be treated.

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