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20/f. Ok, I'll start off by saying that I'm VERY picky. I think it's even a miracle that I like someone because I never saw myself falling again. So, this guy is like my dream boy. He treats me really nice, we have a lot in common, he's very clean cut. He's SUPER cute! He always listens to me. Just perfect! My one major turn off is earrings. He doesn't wear any. That's the only thing that REALLY turns me off. So, I found him on facebook and some of his pictures he has earrings. yikes! But, I don't want to let him go because he's a good catch. He's really sweet. And he can take the earrings off. lol. I mean, he doesn't wear them to school or anything. I'm just concerned he's gonna wear them on our first date. Any suggestions? Should I talk to him about it? I don't want him to know I found him on facebook though. When I get to know him better, if this goes somewhere, I'll express that concern. But, how can I express it at this point in a way that seems normal and nice?
thanks!
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Ignore his earrings and stop being so picky. Just bring up a convo about what turns either of you off a person and add the fact that you dislike earrings in there, if he says oh i dont you like mine say, not really but its your only flaw haha
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I don't do fag tags either. You have a right to be as picky as you want but I wouldn't say anything to him about it... Not until after a while... haha.
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Over Earrings?
I'm going to be fully honest, If you are that picky then you've got yourself a serious problem. If he is a perfect catch, Then go for it but being picky about something that small is only in the end might turn him away. If he likes to wear earrings, Than you should accept that as he is freely expressing himself and what he likes. Sometimes when we date people we need to learn to make sacrifices, It doesn't become about YOU, It becomes about the both of you. Something as simple as a guy wearing earrings is not nor should be a big deal at all. If it turns you off, Well either you learn to just deal with it or find someone else. A guy is not going to change what he likes just too satisfy what you like and make you happy. That is wrong and controlling and it draws a man away, If you want to be with someone you got to learn to be more excepting to the way things are. You wouldn't want someone telling you what you should wear would you?...I'm not trying to be an ass but lets face it you got too lighten up a bit.
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