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he's like a whole different person when we're on the phone.
To be honest, I have posted advice on this before, but it's getting out of hand. My boyfriend and I have been dating for three weeks now. We talk on the phone every night. Well, at least I do. He used to play video games and watch tv whenever we would talk on the phone and I told him it bothered me, so he stopped doing so. But now it's like...ugh. He's all quiet and weird on the phone and I'm always the one talking while he says one word replies like oh and yeah and mhmmm. It's getting on my nerves. I mean, what is the relationship if we barely see each other anymore because he's grounded? I like him a lot. We have a good chemistry. He's extremely sweet to me in person, showering me with compliments and loud with chit chat. But on the phone he's like a different person. I realize guys don't like talking on the phone as much as girls do, but come on. I don't want to complain or nag at him for being so antisocial, but I also feel like I am being strangled to Geath because I am always the one talking. The phone is our only means of communication because he's still grounded from the computer, and I won't see him tomorrow like we usually do because his bike is screwed up. Am I overreacting? Does it really matter how he is on the phone if he treats me like a princess in person? What do I do?
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I'm engaged to a wonderful man. I love him to bits. I have no problem kissing him, calling him stupid names or talking for hours when he's here. But oh man... you get me on the phone and I'm all business. Drives him nuts. I can't bring myself to make kissing noises and be lovey over the phone. He's got the important part down. He's fantastic in person. Just chalk up the rest to a hatred of phone conversation and count down the days till you can see him next. Absence makes the heart grow fonder!
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Yes, I think you ARE overreacting , and he is wierd on the phone coz he doesnt like talking on the phone oir probably because he's grounded and soemone is near him watching , but you should stop overreacting ; Now you seem to care alot for him and that's great , but it's only phone conversations that's getting on your nerves so my advice is You stop calling , carry on with the relationship because it's perfect , remember that the important thing is the person face to face giving you complements, and that he does love you so much but you must stop calling.
Follow my advice , trust me , coz been there done that.
P.S: It DOESNT matter how he's on the phone if he treats like a princess or not .
Take my advice , Good luck :)
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You should stop talking on the phone if it aggravates you so much. You should wait for his grounding to end.
You should play with Barbie dolls until then.
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