Paige...I have this crush! i dont know if he likes me tho!!!we have been talking al lot on facebook!!!I am sooooooooooooo shy to tell him that I like!!!lik...his friends,his brother,AND a lot of other people say he likes me...But i dont believe them!!! He has to tell me!! Everyday I wake up sobbing because Of him!!! I miss him if i m not around him for more than1 hour!!! i cant believe I am tellin u this because i am so popular I am soooo hard to get too.But with him I feel...I fell so different!!!When he talks to me I cant help giggle ing!!I cant help a smile when I am around him!!! he is the hottest guy in school!!!What should I do???I m heart broken when he is not around me!!! Please wright back to me!!!tell me what should do...PLEASE!!! <3
I have been through something similar to this before so I get the missing him and the feeling down because u dont feel you can be with him. What you could do is invite a group of your friends and a group of his out then this way you wont feel so self concious and it gives you the chance to show him the side of you that he perhaps doesnt get to see through facebook!! A thing which you should also do is maybe try and get something to keep you occupied like a new hobby, or even try keeping a diary - they may be percieved as old fashioned but they will help balance out your feelings as the way you feel about this guy is very intense and you need to balance it out or it will drive you crazy!!
Another thing which you could do is over time try and distance yourself from him - as absence does make the heart grow fonder!!
Good luck hun, and dont listen to certain advicenators who are telling you u are being 2 needy!!
Hope I helped!!
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dolphina answered Friday April 22 2011, 3:52 pm: No offense, but you seem kind of obsessive and clingy, judging by all your !!!!!!!!!s and the fact that you are so unhealthily attached to him (that is really a problem if you miss him after just one hour, and sob because of him?--This could be considered kind of stalkerish). I am just saying, you should not act this eager or be so obsessed or you will SCARE HIM AWAY and FREAK HIM OUT.
Just be chill a lot, STOP SOBBING thats psycho, and try to get him to hang out with you in real life, like maybe at a lunch place/coffee place or movie. Keep talking on facebook and if he likes you he will want to hang out with you but i can guarantee he will be freaked out by you if you keep acting so clingy like that. [ dolphina's advice column | Ask dolphina A Question ]
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