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He might move this summer and doesn't want to me too attached.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a month. I just found out yesterday he might go to Arizona this summer to visit his dad and move in with him. He told me he doesn't want me to get too attached, and he said he doesn't want to do certain things so I won't get as attached. I feel upset. I really like him and I don't want our relationship to be focused on what might happen. I want to take everyday at a time and enjoy it while we can. I let him know this, but now I am fearing he won't act the same because of the fact he might leave. Any advice?
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Explain that youre willing to take the chance that you might grow to attatched & that you want to make what might be your last month together count. Why throw something away for a move that might not happen? Its easy to see where hes coming from, but if you really like him & he really likes you then go with it! See where it takes you. So what if he moves in a month? Something could happen tomorrow! Thats what really matters.
Try to explain it to him that way, & thatd it hurt if he shielded himself from you because of the move.
good luck, my inbox is always open!
x sweeethoney
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