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IS there a light at the end of this tunnel. or does he just have to go?


Posted Saturday June 4 2011, 11:51 am

pros.
-babys father
-talented, and with the right mind I know he will have success in the music industry....not lil wayne sucess, or even fame, but he can support us.
-I am somewhat attracted to him
-he doesnt check out other girls or talk about them...wich i find is a rare quality
-he has been a dedicated person (before i knew him) and worked very very hard
-we share and have shared the same group of BESTFRIENDs for 6 years (we were together for 3 of them) really, like a very tight knit cirlce of best friends...that 70s show status.

Cons
-The abuse in the past has clouded my love for him
-I feel like I cant even respect him anymore
-He has bad employment histo...

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He's ended our relationship as he feels we're just friends


Posted Saturday June 4 2011, 10:17 am

I'm a female,35, and my boyfriend's 32. We started going out 4 years ago and things were good and he said he loved me, then after about 8 months he broke up with me saying the last couple of months had felt more like a friendship and the spark had gone. I was devastated as I really loved him. We stayed in contact then about 4 months later things happened and although he had some reservations, we gave it another shot. Anyway it worked out and he said he loved me again, he didn't know what had been going through his head before. He moved in with me about 2 years ago. Our sex life over that time has got less frequent. About 3 months ago we decided to buy a flat together (my idea and I did have to persuade him a bit), but the purchase fell thro...

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my 20 year old husband dont seem intrested in sex? why not?


Posted Saturday June 4 2011, 5:21 am

hello.

my name is leah i am 21 years old. i got married at 18 my personal choice so please dont juge. we both meet when i was 15 he was 14.. we feel in love pretty much right away but didnt start dateing right away. but when we did start dateing things where great we where both virgins and had sex 9 months after we started dateing. the sex was great everytime we did it. of corse being that young we did it offten...he asked me to marry him when i was 17 so 2 years in to are relationship. we both always wanted to get married young and i still love him just as much as i did back then. and so does he.

but see now we have been married for 2 years everything is great in a marrage excepted for the sex. hes only 20 th...

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Posted Saturday June 4 2011, 2:01 am

Okay. So this guy matt. For about two years weve been really close friends. All of freshman year I had a boyfriend who matt hated cause he was not a very good guy... He pressured and forced me into things, hit me, cheated on me... Etc. And when we broke up he spread horrible rumors about me. Matt was basically my rock through all of that. He let me cry on his shoulder and talked through everything with me. But it was always strictly friendship. Then this year he and I really started to pick up our friendship. He would text me everysingle day and we got even closer and I started developing more than just platonic feelings. I just kept denying it though because I felt like he didn't feel the same way and I was scared of ruining our friendship...

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Boyfriend/Kiss


Posted Saturday June 4 2011, 2:00 am

I haven't had a boyfriend in two years, and there's a guy that I like, and he might even ask me out. I also haven't had my first kiss yet, and every time I say it to my friends, they're shocked. What should I do?

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Feeling Insecure


Posted Saturday June 4 2011, 1:05 am

(I'm 20 and he's 21 will be 22 in July, and he just got his associates degree in accounting and will be going to school for his bachelors this fall.)

I've recently started dating this guy. He's a really great person and I really enjoy spending time with him, however he does live in another state so in a way we are kind of long distance.

I started talking to him in November, we met on a dating site. At first I thought he was kind of weird, and I dated another guy which didn't last long. When that guy and I broke up, I asked him a question about my relationship with that guy to see if he thought that I had a chance of getting back with him. We started talking a lot after that, that was back in January.
...

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i want him back


Posted Saturday June 4 2011, 12:03 am

im in middle school and my ex is named austin
and i broke up with him because there were rumors that he was gonna break up with me. so i decided to break up with him before he breaks up with me. but i REALLY LIKED him. and he kept on telling me "i love you" but i pretended i didnt listen. so then i did and he said "oh.umm ok.if thats what you want." and he left. i regret it soooo much.

now today at school we were having this concert and i was the photographer and i had to take photos where austin was sitting with his friends and the WHOLE time he kept on looking at me and putting his head down. i felt bad and i wanted to rush in his arms and say " i love you too, and im sorry" but i was to...

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part 2 i like him or is more


Posted Friday June 3 2011, 9:45 pm

ok so last i think we both flirted alot even though he had a girlfriend... what happen was i had on of those clipps for paper and i put on him and he decided to get me back so he put it in my hair and then i got him back and his girlfriend found it but she thought it was funny but then b4 the christmas break he hug me and but it my hair again... this little thing of ours has been going on since middle school.... im confused???

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Good News? I've Found Someone. Bad news?...


Posted Friday June 3 2011, 9:41 pm

...he's nine years older than me and lives 400 miles away.

I've known this man for approximately a year and two months; and for a year and two months, I've had the hugest mothereffin' crush on him. I'm talking full-on I-wish-we-could-just-make-out-already kind of stuff. When we met, I was in a very serious relationship which just recently ended due to some issues I'd rather not discuss, so I'm single and free as a bird.

I find him attractive in every facet, sweet as cherry pie, but still sarcastic and loud enough to keep me interested. He's already admitted he has a 'thing' for me, to the point where I'm pretty sure we could date...if he lived anywhere near me.

And also, the main issue at hand? ....

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i like him or is it more?


Posted Friday June 3 2011, 9:15 pm

ok so there this guy and we went to middle school togeter and from middle school lots of girl like him when he first came in the 8th grade and im wasnt too interested even my friends liked him and i was kinda of a flirt with him but i didnt like him... so at gr 8 grad we had a dance and i was on my way to the bathroom and he asked my to dance.. well now it 3 year lter and we go to the same highschool and we dnt have classes together but im starting to like him but it not in physical is in a more deeper way i more then just friendship???? what is going on???

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I really want to have sex. Can you get a hooker if you are under 18?


Posted Friday June 3 2011, 6:20 pm

im 17 years old and a guy. I realy want to have sex. I know this might seem like a really stupid question, but how do i get sex? Can you get a hooker if you are under 18?

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Does he care ??


Posted Friday June 3 2011, 6:03 pm

M a 21 female,wit a 28 yr old guy,we r in a relationshp bt we can'nt even see each other for a month although we r lyk few stps away from each other jst separated by one floor..i love the guy but he does'nt treat me special,he never bought anythng for me even on da 14th of FREB whch is a speacial day lovers bt he did'nt bother...we do have sex and he even wants for more evrytym durin our intimancy,. Does he love and care about me?? kindly help me..??

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In Love With My Best Friend Desperate for help.


Posted Friday June 3 2011, 5:55 pm

I met this kid three years ago he's cute, funny, sweet, he means the world to me. I love him obviously and he used to like me but the weird thing is he never asked me out even though it's OBVIOUS that I like him. But that was 2009 it's 2011. 2010 we went a little too far and he kinda stopped talking to me because of his girlfriend. And over the summer we started talking more when they broke up. and we became better friends again. Like we hung out 24/7 in 2009 and he talked to me on the computer all the time he IM-ed me first but never anyone else. Now I have to talk to him first and he doesn't always answer. But I miss him and I at least want our friendship to go back to the way it was. They got together again this year and just broke up tw...

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Am i loved or he is just using me to push the time?


Posted Friday June 3 2011, 5:40 pm

I am a 21 year old female having no kid,inlove with a 28 yr old guy with 2 kids.we've dating 4 almost abwt a year,and he's also inlove wit the mother of the kids..we r in da sme flat and da mothr is livin in far in anada village while we r in town,but evrytym whn she visit ma bf i always have to be alne no matter she gonna sty 4 a mnth??he dnt cl nor cum 2 see me? And he does'nt even tel me abwt his plnz 4 da future...wts da best way dump or be patient??

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He's younger than me and I think he likes me :S


Posted Friday June 3 2011, 8:11 am

Hey :B I'm in eighth grade and 14.

Last week, I was at my friend Emily's house and her little brother had his friends over. Amongst them was a 12-year-old boy called Cody in 5th grade. He was really cute, the kind of kid you KNOW will be hot when he gets older ;)

So later that day, he added me on Facebook and has not stopped talking to me since. He goes to my school, and I see him around sometimes but there's no time to stop and talk.
I'm not trying to sound full of myself or anything, but I think that he has a crush on me? Because

- he always starts the conversation first
- at school if he sees me, he smiles and waves
- on Facebook, if I ask him a question, he's always like...

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Does he like / have feelings for me?


Posted Friday June 3 2011, 7:42 am

Well there's this guy who's close to my family. He's about 2 years older than me and I don't really see him that often. The thing is, I keep on having this feeling that he likes me more than in a 'friendly' way. Some reasons are: he always says 'hi' and my name to me whenever he see's me. He also smiles at me most of the time. He once touched my arm (it may have been to get my attention), but it was in a really sweet way. Also, he used to always stare at me and sometimes it was like we were staring at each other for ages (but maybe its just my imagination).
Anyway, so do you think he has feelings for me or am I just overreacting?

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am I prude? help !


Posted Thursday June 2 2011, 8:44 pm

so I'm 13 girl and i have had boyfriends and guys that I liked that liked me back. but I'm nervous to have my first kiss. I'm only nervous cause I don't want to be bad at it. does that make me prude? and there's a guy I like, were friends I heard he likes me but idk. i wanna kiss him but I'm too nervous. I'm even nervous talking to him. is there a way I can make myself not so nervous about having my first kiss? please help me:)

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should u still date a guy if he doesnt want to marry now


Posted Thursday June 2 2011, 5:27 pm

I been seeing a someone for 6 months but i still keep my options open because he told me he might not want to get married for 2 years and hes 4o. Im 37. Do u think i shouldnt sleep with him and just b friends only. Until i find someone who wants the same things.

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One of the most complicated boys...


Posted Thursday June 2 2011, 5:19 pm

Alright, here it goes. I like a guy (yes, I’m a girl), and it’s hard to tell if he likes me. We’ve been talking on Facebook for the past three months. He also goes to my school. A few weeks ago, I told him I liked him, but before he said anything I asked if we could just stay friends. He said friends is good. I mean, he probably doesn’t like me. He’s two years older than me, and we’re complete opposites. He’s a football/basketball player, and all the girls looove him. Me? I’m the quiet freshman that’s nothing like him. We run in different circles, you might say. I mean, I’m sure he only talks to me still to be nice… right? That’s why I think he doesn’t like me. But part of me thinks he does because he’s flirty a...

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i'm in love with a girl


Posted Thursday June 2 2011, 4:17 pm

18/f i've never been gay before, and maybe i'm still not. but i love this girl at my school and its causing depression and anxiety.

first off, school ended for me about two weeks ago. i graduated. she's still a junior. we talked at school all the time and everything was really cool, she even started liking me back. but now schools ended. i haven't seen her in what feels like an eternity and every day, its getting harder to move forward. i try to talk to her sometimes, but texting isn't the same. i wanna SEE her. and everytime i try to hang out, she's busy. i think she may be avoiding me. she knows i'm into her, but she definitely doesn't know the extent of my feelings. another problem is that she's in love with this other guy...

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