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am I prude? help !
so I'm 13 girl and i have had boyfriends and guys that I liked that liked me back. but I'm nervous to have my first kiss. I'm only nervous cause I don't want to be bad at it. does that make me prude? and there's a guy I like, were friends I heard he likes me but idk. i wanna kiss him but I'm too nervous. I'm even nervous talking to him. is there a way I can make myself not so nervous about having my first kiss? please help me:)
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I had the same feeling...Im 13 to im a girl to..i had my first kinda serious realationship and were at a dance i kept getting pressured to do it and i ended up doin it i was so madd at my self....So just relax and wait until your ready to do it no your not prude your just smart to wait and make it special.
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To be honest, if you feel nervous just talking to him maybe he's not the guy for you. After all, you have to communicate to make a relationship work.
I'd actually suggest tho not talking to him about kissing him-it could spoil the romance, which is why the first kiss is so special.
Just make sure you guys are alone somewhere-you don't want people staring. And take deep breaths. The thing is, if it's your first kiss, who's to say it's not his aswell?
Just give him a hug and when coming out from the hug kiss him. What could go wrong? Trust your instincts. If he likes you too, then he'll be glad you made the first move. Good Luck
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You're not being prude, just being pretty normal. You won't be bad at it - and besides this guy you like, I'm assuming he is your age - what the hell does he know about making out? Guys can act like they know a lot, but in reality they can be just as clueless. If your thirteen and not very experienced, what gives you the impression he is? If you a quite nervous talking to him, then I wouldn't think about having your first kiss just yet. Keep talking to him, before you know it you'll be relaxed around him once you both know more abou eachother and you both have confessed you like eachother. First kisses are wonderful and really nothing to worry about. Remind yourself he is pretty much in the same boat, so noone can be there to judge you. Good luck :)
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No your are not a prude. What you are is 13. There is a first time for everything. A first kiss, a first date, a first dance and so on.
We learn from doing. Sure the first time is not always perfect; we get better the second and then the third ans so on.
Being 13 and facing a multitude of first times this is a good time to set let limits on what you will do and not do. Never do things you don't want to do just because others have done so or say they have done so. What I am saying is never give in to peer pressure. You need to have your own set of principals. From them you set your limits of what you will do and not do.
This is a good time to ist down with mom and talk with her about dating. Ask her what you can expect from boys and how to react. Remember mom was once your age and has experienced everything you are about to experience.
If mom asks why you want to have such a conversation you can tell her you wrote to us and a guy who is old enough to be your grandfather suggested you do so.
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