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I'm 14 years old..me and my noyfriend have been together for two years..we've been REALLY horny lately and we were going to have sex the other day BUT I don't like my body. We talked about it and he made me feel soo loved and he told me he loves my body and he loves me weather we have sex or not. I have been fingering myself alot. How can I start getting comfortable being undressed? Show more skin? Soo I can have sex .. (link)
I know exactly how you feel yes it will take time to be comfortable in your own skin and what I truthfully did once i.got out the shower I looked at my self in the mirror and I told my self that this is what I have and to be thankful for what I have and I would then spell out in the mirror "i'm fuckin beautiful" I hope that boost your self-estem. I hope I helped. And this other people who answered your questions just kinda told you not to have sex hun don't listen to them its your decision and your life so do what you feel is rite. :)


Is it time for us to break up?
My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over 2 years. I am 19, he is 20. We started dating in high school, and have known each other for about 4.5 years total. I love him. We have a lot of fun being together.

Recently, however, we have both been thinking more about getting married in the next couple years. I always wanted to get married young so it's been exciting to think about. Because we have been talking more about marriage, I feel like things have gotten more stressful. I used to feel really good about marrying him, but now I am not so sure.

1. We fight a bit. We tend to argue, and we are both pretty stubborn so it usually doesn't end too happily.
2. I feel like he isn't really putting in very much effort to...anything, really. His school work (we are sophomores in college) is average, he doesn't have a part time job, he sleeps through his alarm, and his parents still tell him what to do.
3. This sounds super mean, but I always feel like I am working harder. Like whether it's with our date-night plans, in school, in the relationship- I feel like I am the one who has to hold everything together. And I feel like I deserve someone who can be on my level with me, instead of someone I have to drag everywhere.
4. This is probably worst of all, but I recently met a new guy and he is really nice and cute and fun, and he acts like a grown up! He is a few years older. I do like him. I don't know how he feels about me, but I almost feel like that doesn't matter so much. It's more the idea that I am **willing** to look around. Seems like a problem!

I know this is really long, but I would appreciate some input. I have never dated anyone else before (and that is scary) but I want to do the right thing!!!
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Honestly I know i'm young but I think you should just talk to him about how you feel and see where it goes I mean your still in college you have plenty of time if you decide not to be together. It never hurt to be single for awhile. Oh and p.s ALL couples argue so its not only you. I hope I helped. :)


what is an orgasm? i have an idea and I'm in health right now in "the unit" but it's never talked about and i don't want to embarrass myself and ask. (link)
I mean the best way to answer this is go scientifical on you lol basically it is a series of spasms in/on your vagina that kinda go through your bo. I hope I helped :)


does it hurt your first time when you have sex? (link)
Honestly it depends on if youu use tampons or pads because if you use pads yes it will definitely hurt because nothing has ever entered you but if you use tampons you might have a good chance on escaping the pain because you might already have "popped your cherry". I hope I helped. :)


im 14 years old ps.im a girl well anyways today i got my first kiss i was so happy he told my friend that he likes me and that i was beautiful but i feel really bad because so many guys and girls were mad at him the guys were mad because they liked me and the girls were all his ex's and now i feel terrible because 2 of his ex girlfriends started crying and i kinda regret it now ....... any advice and what i should do about me and him and all those other people who have nothing to do with it anyway i know thats probably mean to say but its true i had to say it (link)
Gurl,You should not eever be worried about the people around your situation their feeelings dnt mattter at all it only matters how you 2 feel about each.If he is yours now you shouldnt be worried about how everyone else feels about it because if you try and make them happy you will never be happy


Music is an important part of my life. I know it one of the things I could never live without. I play two instruments and have a few hundred songs on my ipod(it's an old nano so it's almost completely full). I especially love to sing and play popular songs on the piano. I always have fantasies of how I can become a famous singer even though my parents would never agree to it. One day in the car, my mom, brother, and sister, and me were singing to a song on the radio. She was joking around about how we could have a sibling band, but then she was like, "Too bad none of y'all can sing." Just fyi, i sing alot in the car and at home. I asked her if my singing was bad, but the only answer I got from her was something about how I don't compare to some of the famous singers. Should I give up my dream to sing or should I just try harder???
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Im very happy you asked this question becausei am basically the same way.I love music and can sing and i know i could never live without it.I sing all the time i even auditioned for xfactor but i did not make it all the way you should never give up you dreamm EVER.I would never give it up even if the whole world told me to give up.No matter what you dhould always stick around your dreams because their yours.Try harder and never give up ever at all stick to it no matter how old you get if you want go after it.

-Lovely Singer


so I'm 13 girl and i have had boyfriends and guys that I liked that liked me back. but I'm nervous to have my first kiss. I'm only nervous cause I don't want to be bad at it. does that make me prude? and there's a guy I like, were friends I heard he likes me but idk. i wanna kiss him but I'm too nervous. I'm even nervous talking to him. is there a way I can make myself not so nervous about having my first kiss? please help me:) (link)
I had the same feeling...Im 13 to im a girl to..i had my first kinda serious realationship and were at a dance i kept getting pressured to do it and i ended up doin it i was so madd at my self....So just relax and wait until your ready to do it no your not prude your just smart to wait and make it special.


So I was making out with my boyfriend on my bed, we were all clos and everything. A felt his bonerthrough his pants on my stomach. He started to kinda slowly pelvic thrust but was trying to make it not so noticeable .. I think. As he started doing this, we were still making out, and he was breathing heavily and kinda let out a moanish like little squeal (it was quiet and went with his breathing) why was he doing this?

Oh. And he was also grabbing my boob at the time. (link)
Well,Im guessing you boyfriend was kinda in the mood and was readdy but decided to do it dry...so technically he was dry humping he was getting a dry sensation of the making out


what is a boner
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Its basically when a guy gets hard.
Or the medical term an erection.




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