im 14 years old ps.im a girl well anyways today i got my first kiss i was so happy he told my friend that he likes me and that i was beautiful but i feel really bad because so many guys and girls were mad at him the guys were mad because they liked me and the girls were all his ex's and now i feel terrible because 2 of his ex girlfriends started crying and i kinda regret it now ....... any advice and what i should do about me and him and all those other people who have nothing to do with it anyway i know thats probably mean to say but its true i had to say it
Xui answered Saturday May 28 2011, 7:30 am: You have nothing to feel bad about, Jealousy is a funny thing. The guys who have crushes on you are jealous because you kissed someone else and not them.
The exes are EXES, They are no longer with him. It is okay to kiss him. If he is single and is not dating anyone then why the hell not. If his exes are making a big deal of it then that is their problem not yours.
So basically you ignore it, You didn't force the guy to kiss you and you didn't interfere with a relationship because he is single so if his exes want to be jealous then let them they will eventually see he's moved on and they will get over it. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
gr8fruit answered Saturday May 28 2011, 12:01 am: Hey,
It is very exciting to have a first kiss, you shouldn't feel bad at all! It was his choice to kiss you and obviously he enjoyed it and meant it. You should be very happy and lucky that a sincere guy kissed you :) It doesn't matter what anyone else says or feels about you two, that is between you and him! No one was there and no one knew how it happened, except you.
Don't worry about his ex's. Ex's are ex's for a reason and just cuz they cried doesn't change the fact that what he felt for you is what he didn't feel for any of them; otherwise, he would still be with them and he is NOT. If I were you, I would ignore those people that are talking about it. It is none of their business when something happens in your life and they should keep their noses out of it. If they ever say things happened between you two that didn't, it doesn't matter! You and him will always know the truth. So ignore them, spend time with him and you will see he was and still is thinking about you more than anyone else; Savour the moment! <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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