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I love animals. I get along with most people. I can tolerate a lot of crap that goes around. I listen to anything anyone has to say. I am outgoing, but I know how to be serious when I need to be. I am very good with technology (Specifically computers and Movie making). Anything else you want to know about me? You can reach me from whatever connection you have to me. I am in a great 6 year relationship with my loved one Nicky! I am a proud mommy-to-be! I am due in December of 2011.
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Me and this guy has been friends for a while, and yesterday he invited me to go to the movies with group of people and he paid for my ticket because I did not have any money and it was a scary movie,
we sat next to eachother and the movie we were watching was really scary, so I held his arm
and then after that i held his wrist and next thing you know we were holding hands. Does that mean anything? or he was just holding my hands too just to be nice? Would you hold a girl's hand like that even if u werent attracted to her? would it mean anything to you? or im just reading this wayy to much? I like him but idk if he feels the same way about me. (link)
He likes you a bit. :D If he didn't care a little thing about you. He wouldn't have let you hold his hand. And if he wouldn't have let you hold his hand, he wouldn't let it get any much further. So therefore, he likes you. But don't rush into assumptions too fast. Keep going at a slow pace with him in the friendship and see how it goes on from there. :D


What do people mean when they say that they 'got on someone'? For example, 'I got on this guy at the party last night.' (link)
Slang terminology:
-Had sex with that person
-Hooked up AKA kissed and whatnot
-Just fooled around. Nothing too intimate.
-Found a guy/girl that they like and got close.


I know two guys that I like, but they are so different! One is funny and I have fun with him a lot, but the other is so imaginative and sweet! Who do I choose? The first one teases me, but I know he likes me, but the other is close to my personality, but I blew him off without meaning to! Please help me! P.S. I am pretty young and female. (link)
Stay friends with both of them. Don't go out with either one. Try to find a guy who's funny but matches up close to your personality at the same time. :D


this is really long, SORRRRYYYYY..... these people who are supposed to be my friends have been ruining my life for awhile now and this is the first time i've been able to explain it since late last year.

so, i've been friends with one of the girls, let's call her Mary, for a really long time. we had some REALLY good times together, and me & her were each other's best friends. then last year, she got a new friend, let's say her name is Barbie (lol first thing that popped in my head) and i was kinda forced to be friend with her too. that was fine with me, and of course i was a little jealous but not enough to say anything. i wasn't really bothered. then this year, everything changed. we were the 3 best friends to each other in the school until late last year, when out of nowhere, both girls completely ganged up on me, telling me i've been bringing them down ever since i met them, that i'm a bad influence, and all this other shit. i was soooo hurt, but luckily the fight only lasted for 2 weeks.. but ever since then nothing has been the same. i never know when they're really ok with me, or when they're secretly thinking i'm ruining their lives or something crazy again! the day before the fight, i had absolutely NO idea anyone was mad at me. they gave no hints whatsoever, texted me and stuff.. then the next day, i was the worst person in the world. so i can never know!

that's fight #1. next one only lasted 1night, but got me REALLY paranoid. I had a twitter, where i would put down all my thoughts and feelings.. it was like a diary. i have friends on there, it was just my owl little world to escape. everyone needs somewhere to vent, and since i obviously couldn't to my "friends" i did to my online friends who actually could help me sometimes! well,of course, Mary & Barbie (ahaha) find the Twitter, and text me telling me how much of a bitch i am for ever being mad at them. ......... like they never. did. anything. wrong. for example, i remember one of the tweets was calling someone a bitch. i was watching MTV for christ's sake! and both Mary AND Barbie accused me of calling them a bitch. on the tweet that was sent like 4 months ago. so they crawl into my own thoughts, and get mad about how i feel. the only reason we resolved the fight is because they both ganged up on me again, and said i had to "confess" to saying what i did. so i did, even though the tweets honestly weren't about them.. so that led me into a spot where i can't be unhappy, ever, and if i am, i can't express it in any way because then i'd be emo therefore ruining their lives.

yes, there's a fight #3, but it only lasted 2 days and it was only with Barbie.. it started on a friday that was an EXTREMELY BAD DAY FOR ME. worst day ever. so i didn't talk much, cuz i couldn't or i'd be "emo". but at one point, i called my mom and she was cussing me out so i had to break down and cry. THAT was the reason Barbie got mad at me. because i cried, she got the idea that i cut myself. not even kidding. she said she hated me, because i was annoying, emo, and i cut myself. ....... Mary was REALLY nice about it all, was on my side (for once) but remained friends with Barbie. Barbie soon acted like none of it happened, and hugged me. never really apologizing, which was becoming a trait. to this day i haven't gotten 1 apology!

soooooooooooo NOW I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO. should i just ditch them or something and become a loner? when they're being normal friends to me i have a lot of fun, but it's too much to handle not being able to think straight. i'm SO afraid of having another fight, i'll agree to anything they say. i sound like a fucking loser right now but seriously, i don't know what to do right now. i'm REALLY SORRY THIS HAD TO BE SO LONG but I really just need some help on this :( (link)
When all of you guys are having a ''good day'' or in your words (being normal friends). Get the two of them with you and then ask them in the first place why each of them got mad at you and started to hate you. Once they tell you, explain the post that you wrote 4 months ago (Thing about the MTV) and then see what they have to say. Then explain to barbie the reason why you cried was because you were on a phone call with your mom and she was yelling at you a lot and that you couldn't handle it. You started crying over it. then see what "Barbie" has to say about that. O hope that this helps.




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