Me and this guy has been friends for a while, and yesterday he invited me to go to the movies with group of people and he paid for my ticket because I did not have any money and it was a scary movie,
we sat next to eachother and the movie we were watching was really scary, so I held his arm
and then after that i held his wrist and next thing you know we were holding hands. Does that mean anything? or he was just holding my hands too just to be nice? Would you hold a girl's hand like that even if u werent attracted to her? would it mean anything to you? or im just reading this wayy to much? I like him but idk if he feels the same way about me.
Xui answered Monday April 4 2011, 2:36 am: Guys don't just hold a girls hand to be nice, Likewise the dude really likes you. If he didn't, He wouldn't of held your hand. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
gr8fruit answered Sunday April 3 2011, 1:05 pm: Hey,
The fact that you held hands and he didn't move his away, means that he has some feelings for you and he thought it was cute you needed comforting from the scary movie. Guys love being a girls safety. I think part of why he was holding your hand was to be nice and the other part... I don't think he would of held your hand if he didn't care. To me, it would mean that he is attracted to you and he likely wants you to make the next move: so ask him to do something with you.
I don't think you are reading this too much, you are just curious how he feels. You could ask him to another movie (possibly at your house), out for some drinks, or bowling, etc. I do like how bold you were to keep the physical attraction until you were holding hands :) Keep that going when you are with him. Once you let him know how you feel, you will know how he feels even more. Never be afraid to take that chance/flirt. I am positive he will be open to hanging out with you very soon <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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