M a 21 female,wit a 28 yr old guy,we r in a relationshp bt we can'nt even see each other for a month although we r lyk few stps away from each other jst separated by one floor..i love the guy but he does'nt treat me special,he never bought anythng for me even on da 14th of FREB whch is a speacial day lovers bt he did'nt bother...we do have sex and he even wants for more evrytym durin our intimancy,. Does he love and care about me?? kindly help me..??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? snowboardbabe answered Sunday June 5 2011, 10:23 am: First of all , you should not even be asking yourself or asking others that question. Obviously you are very worried and it is clear to you and me and to everyone else this guy might be the type where he does not celebrate anything or he does not care. Not trying to judge , but from what I see.. wow yeah this guy is in for the sex. Do not keep yourself up to high for this guy.. especially not being able to see eachother for a month which the trust barrier will come in. If he does love you it does not matter if he bought you something or not that is like Valentines day some guys do not buy girls things because they hate the days they do not pay attention to those days. But, to me... you said you guys have sex and everytime he wants more.. I would be careful with this guy. Please have an open path for someone else because I was in a similar situation and I ended it. You are worht more then just sex. Trust me even if I do not know you , please do not bother with this guy.
Xui answered Saturday June 4 2011, 11:05 am: It sounds like the guy is all about sex, Not commitment. Honestly, I think you'd be better off if you completely cut the contact and stopped seeing him. This guy is using you, He wants sex it's that simple.
Stop sleeping with him, Stop seeing him. If you don't want to be a bootycall then find someone who will appreciate you for who you are and be more sensitive to your feelings. Screw this asshole [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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