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Am i loved or he is just using me to push the time?
I am a 21 year old female having no kid,inlove with a 28 yr old guy with 2 kids.we've dating 4 almost abwt a year,and he's also inlove wit the mother of the kids..we r in da sme flat and da mothr is livin in far in anada village while we r in town,but evrytym whn she visit ma bf i always have to be alne no matter she gonna sty 4 a mnth??he dnt cl nor cum 2 see me? And he does'nt even tel me abwt his plnz 4 da future...wts da best way dump or be patient??
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Dump him! If hes not making a commitment to you and only you, he's not worth your valuable time and you could find someone much better who will treat you like a princess! Hope I could help!
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Wow.. you should know this answer... DUMP! Get AWAY FROM HIM! in love with the girl of the kids? not only that not telling you the future?... have to be alone? does not want to show you off? oh wow.. please girl you can do SOOOOOO much better then this guy... PLEASE dont waste your time.
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My honest opinion is that you are wasting your time with this guy. I see little more than constant drama in your future with him. He's got two kids with a women to whom I'm guessing he was never married. He's in love with her, but he's got something going with you and when she's in town he basically ignores you and spends his time with her. Think about what that says about his priorities and values and whether that's really the kind of man you want to focus your time, energy, and emotions on. Think also what this says about your own self-concept that you are willing to be shoved into a closet, so to speak, when it is inconvenient for him to have you around. I think that word "convenient" really describes his relationship with you. He gets sex and attention from you when it is convenient for him, and pays little or no attention to you when it isn't. You can do better.
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