should u still date a guy if he doesnt want to marry now
Question Posted Thursday June 2 2011, 5:27 pm
I been seeing a someone for 6 months but i still keep my options open because he told me he might not want to get married for 2 years and hes 4o. Im 37. Do u think i shouldnt sleep with him and just b friends only. Until i find someone who wants the same things.
lovealways1221 answered Saturday June 4 2011, 12:33 am: nobody can tell you the right answer, because only you know the answer. It's really what your head, heart, and gut is saying to you. If you really love him and want to be with him forever, then by all means stay with him. Nobody on this website truly knows how you feel around him.. the only person who knows that feeling the best is you. You should spend a few days alone and think deeply about this. Go for a long walk or even take a road trip and just drive out of town for a few days to think about how you really feel. Are you happy with him? does he make you feel better about yourself? can you see him being there for you when you need someone the most? Good luck. [ lovealways1221's advice column | Ask lovealways1221 A Question ]
dearcandore answered Friday June 3 2011, 11:57 am: Are you looking for marriage? If so, you are wasting your time with this guy. Not that he's being unfair. He has honestly told you where he stands, and that's kinder than stringing you along. I'm sure he's nice enough, but don't waste anymore romantic energy on this one. You may be missing "the one" because you are spending too much energy on "the one for now". [ dearcandore's advice column | Ask dearcandore A Question ]
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