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i like him or is it more?


Question Posted Friday June 3 2011, 9:15 pm

ok so there this guy and we went to middle school togeter and from middle school lots of girl like him when he first came in the 8th grade and im wasnt too interested even my friends liked him and i was kinda of a flirt with him but i didnt like him... so at gr 8 grad we had a dance and i was on my way to the bathroom and he asked my to dance.. well now it 3 year lter and we go to the same highschool and we dnt have classes together but im starting to like him but it not in physical is in a more deeper way i more then just friendship???? what is going on???

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Amarete answered Wednesday June 22 2011, 10:41 am:
It sounds like you have a crush. That's totally normal, but be careful about it. Sometimes you can fall in love with the idea of a person even though you don't know much about them. Then when you get to know them, that picture of them that you had in your mind gets smashed to pieces.

Ask yourself, what do you really know about him? Things he likes or dislikes, personality traits, what he does in his spare time, that kind of thing. If you don't know much about him, that's ok. Just hang out with him (or even just talk to him online more often) and get to know him more, and then you can decide how you feel later on.

But don't jump into a relationship, or express feelings for him, all of the sudden after not being around him much for several years. That could end badly for both of you, or scare him off completely. Pace yourself. If you really like him and he likes you and you are a good match for each other, thing will probably work out in time. :)

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