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Impossible to be loved...
Posted Friday July 1 2011, 1:17 am
I'm 18, and female.
I've never been on a date, and i've never had a boyfriend. Is that normal for someone my age?
I'm told i'm pretty, and I know I have a good personality. I have a lot of close friends. I do a lot of community service and work with my church... i'm the type of person that just loves to help people, and I love most everyone I meet. I'm great with people.
But i've never been asked out... My best friend says it's because my heart is closed... I don't know if I believe her though... I really want a relationship more than anything. I'm self-conscious, but I don't think I let that get in my way... But no one i've liked has ever liked me back.
I guess i'm just wondering...
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friends with benefits
Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 11:51 pm
well i am 15 years old and theres this guy who comes up here during the summer, he is basically my neighbor and he likes me. I kinda like him too but i didnt want to start a relationship with him because he is my neighbor for the summer, but ive been hanging out with him for the past couple of weeks and we ended up kissing yesterday and we made out today. So now i feel bad because i didnt want to start anything with him but i really like him:/ should i stop or what should i do?
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"The one" is moving away. Do I tell him how I feel?
Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 10:20 pm
The guy that I think is "the one" is moving 1,959 miles away from me and I having a hard time imagining life without him, sure we tease each other but it will never be the same without him. Also I don't know whether to tell him if I love him so much that I can't live without him or wait to see what happens. He is also my best guy friend and we have a very strong friendship. We talk to each other about everything and I really need some advice before I get too depressed. Please anyone? :'(
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I wanna stop being so sexual all the time with him.
Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 9:04 pm
My boyfriend and I see each other almost every week, including Saturdays. We have an awesome connection, always laughing, same interests, never a dull moment, always conversating, keeping the talks going and learning more and more about each other. We are a good match from what he says and I think he is amazing. We have the best chemistry and I think we are inseperable. We're crazy for each other!
But almost every time we meet, we end up fooling around. We don't go all the way, but just a foreplay and oral... He mentioned one day he wanted to stop being naughty and that our relationship didn't need to revolve around sex like all his other ones did... It makes me think he's extremely serious about our relationship even if we h...
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He says he wants to marry me...
Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 9:00 pm
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month now, and I am sixteen, and he is eighteen. He is going to the Navy in December, but he says that if we last until I am eighteen, he wants to marry me. He seems really serious about it, and it's not like I'm afraid of committment, but I kinda wonder...
He is extremely mature and when he says something, he means it. I'm not worried about him changing his mind, but should I be cautious with this relationship if he brings it up this early? Or is it really serious?
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I love him but i don't know if he loves me back
Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 7:38 pm
how do i tell heim i love him?
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:'(
Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 7:37 pm
i Wrote a question on here, about my boyfriend of 2 years.. drinking and all that stuff, im really upset.. he hasnt drank yet, but hes flirting with girls,and he just thinks hes too young to be in a relationship, he left me hanging like i was nothing,no.. it really wasnt any stupid relationship..we were best friends,everything for eachohter, i helped him in his toughest moments, and so did he.. both our parents knew about us.. itsnot just stupid relationship.. it was real.. and thats why im so hurt.. i feel like he just threw me away for new girls, for new expireiences, i cant do anything right, i really need you to help me please.. i dont know how to move on, how do i.. how do i forget all those times when wed text,and talk ,and our kissin...
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Dating a Workaholic
Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 2:11 pm
My girlfriend and I have been best friends from a young age. After a few dating fiascos on both our parts, we realized that we wanted to be with each other. We are 6 months into our relationship and we both couldn’t be happier…except for one thing. She works at a job which keeps her extremely busy for about 5 months in the year. During this time she gets some evenings off every other week, and about one weekend off a month. I’m at the point where I love her so much that I want to spend every second I get with her, but my 40 hour a week schedule doesn’t match up with her 95 hour a week schedule. I find myself getting frustrated with the lack of time I spend with her, and the lack of physical and emotional connection I feel with her w...
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My bad marriage
Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 11:50 am
My husband is very verbally abusive. He also will not help me with money. I lost my job a year ago and I still pay everything and he will not help. If I leave can I get finacial help through the state or county.
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ex girlfriend is tutoring MY boyfriend.
Posted Wednesday June 29 2011, 11:55 pm
i've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 months. we've been long time friends, and dated once before, but now its becoming more serious. lately, he's been getting tutored by his ex girlfriend. she goes over to his house, and he goes to hers all the time. they used to have a really close relationship, and now its getting back on track. he says i have nothing to worry about and he wont ever go back to her. i feel very jealous and insecure. i dont know what to do. please help.
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Married and need some intimate advice about bringing another woman into our bed
Posted Wednesday June 29 2011, 9:40 pm
Well ok long story short im married, and both my husband and i are lookin to find another female partner to help us spice up the bedroom, im all for it and he says he is aswell but im just not convinced and am worried that if we go ahead with it a few months or years down the track he is going to turn around and throw it back in my face, we have talked and talked about it but i still feel since it was my idea in the first place he is just more or less going along with it so not to dissapoint me, is there any way that i can really be sure that he does want it as much as i do??? any advice would b great plz.
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Is my Marriage ending?
Posted Wednesday June 29 2011, 8:19 pm
20/f
I have been with my husband since I was 15 years old. I married him when I was 16. I know that I was too young to make a choice like that, but we were so In love. Everything was great until we got married after that he changed. It was like he had decided that he already had me so there was no reaso to try anymore. this june 22 was our 4 year wedding anniversary, we have two children our son is 3 and our daughter is 1. We both love our children very much, but I feel like our love for each other is slipping away. I have not been happy for a long time. He makes me feel so ugly and unwanted. But I am afraid to leave him. I have been with him since I was 15. I went from living with my mom to living with him. I have never lived on my...
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What do you do if a boy is ashamed of you?
Posted Wednesday June 29 2011, 5:09 pm
What does it mean if a boy is ashamed of a girl he is dating or with?
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I guess aim a lesbian I really don't know ?
Posted Wednesday June 29 2011, 4:53 pm
I don't prefer to put my name so long story shirt I don't know if I am a lesbian but that's not my topic , I have a close friend I guess I like and I feel something in my heart when I am with her but the thing is I think she is straight but the thing is she treats me differrently she hugs me and let me out my hands around her but I don't know if she takes it friendly or she is a lesbian but she likes a guy who she faught with and stopes talking the thing is aim never jealous of her loving a guy and sometime I feel gross of the concept being a lesbian so am I or no and does my fringe likes me and scared to tellnme or what ?
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Dating a Cocky Boy?
Posted Wednesday June 29 2011, 2:31 pm
Last Friday I went to a party and met this boy. From the moment we met we really clicked. He was showing me off to all of his friends and kind of overdoing it with the compliments. I am not sure if it's part of his game or he really meant it. Anyway we ended up sleeping at the party together. I barely got any sleep because we were talking and kissing all night. He attempted more and would apologize when I rejected him yet still attempted more once a decent amount of time had went by. He was somewhat cocky about himself stating how I definitely wanted him and whatnot which made me want him even less. After our night of kind of cute fun he took me home. He has been trying to hang out since but I am not sure if it's a good idea. I really click...
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He Vanished Without a Trace, or a Word.
Posted Wednesday June 29 2011, 2:23 pm
So I was dating a guy whom I really liked for about a week. He stated to me that he was relocating on to the area where i live, we spent a lot of time together, spent father's day with him helped him out when his work vehicle was in the shop everything that i possible could do to be nice to him. he spoke with my roommate and she asked him what was his intentions for me he told her that he really liked me and wanted to start a relationship with me. the next day I spoke with him three times we text back and forth. Well the last conversation I had with him, he wasn't mad there was a connection problem and said he would call me back. The conversation was going great I had asked him was he going to be up when i got off from work because i wanted...
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Madly in love with a married man
Posted Wednesday June 29 2011, 1:31 pm
How do I get over him when I don't feel my love for him is wrong, when I don't feel it should be a reason for any of his family members to dislike me???
I've been open about my feelings. He doesn't like me - not the way I like him - but I've told his wife I love her husband. She said she appreciates my honesty.
I did not want to be looking in her face, having feelings for her husband and feel like a hypocrit...Say "Hi" to her, wishing i was hugging her man.
Why don't I see anything wrong in having feelings for him? Am I supposed to feel like i am commiting a crime or something??? 'Cause if I am, I am not.
I want him to be MY MAN. I want him emotionally and sexually. I want to love him forever, BUT I ...
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He wants me to wait around while he dates other women?
Posted Wednesday June 29 2011, 4:47 am
I am from Kentucky. I used to date this guy named Braiden three years ago. We broke up because we couldn't get along and we were both too immature for a relationship at that point. However now he is in Afghanistan and we have both matured considerably since then. So we reconnected and decided that we still liked each other. I thought we were back on track and maybe going to talk about getting back together. The next thing I know he is in a relationship with another woman. When I asked him about it he said that he does not know what he wants. Then I decided to move on and see other people. He found out about it and got really angry. He said that if I loved him I would not be with anyone else yet he is still with another woman. He keeps sayin...
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Does he still like me as more than friends with benefits?
Posted Tuesday June 28 2011, 11:03 pm
My ex and I broke up about 4 months ago and we recently started talking again. We started texting again and we were friendly with one another. Then he became flirty and honestly, whenever we held those flirty conversations, those lasted the longest. He asked me if I wanted to continue being that way with him and I decided to test it and see if he had feelings for me and he told me that he has learned to control his feelings. Clearly that meant he's over me, or that he's trying very hard to. I don't know why he would ask me to do something like this. We did establish that we are very comfortable with one another but I only agreed because I wanted to see how far it would go. He was my first boyfriend and the only guy I've ever been really phy...
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Is this love I feel real or am I lying to myself?
Posted Tuesday June 28 2011, 2:58 pm
Hw do i know ma boyfriend love me coz he is always away in college in another town de last time we had sex was in april is this love i feel real or am i lying to maself help
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