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I guess aim a lesbian I really don't know ?
I don't prefer to put my name so long story shirt I don't know if I am a lesbian but that's not my topic , I have a close friend I guess I like and I feel something in my heart when I am with her but the thing is I think she is straight but the thing is she treats me differrently she hugs me and let me out my hands around her but I don't know if she takes it friendly or she is a lesbian but she likes a guy who she faught with and stopes talking the thing is aim never jealous of her loving a guy and sometime I feel gross of the concept being a lesbian so am I or no and does my fringe likes me and scared to tellnme or what ?
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Nothing wrong with being a lesbian. Sexual orientation is something you are born with. If you can find a loving connection with a woman then go for it. Life is too short to worry about what other people are thinking. And only you can live your life.
Tell the other girl, "I feel so close to you I practically want to kiss you" and then give her a playful kiss and see how she responds. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
As for what the other girl is thinking with regard to boys, she may be bisexual. Nothing wrong with that. Also, at your age, to be a lesbian requires a certain amount of social courage in our sexually repressed American society and she may be wondering if she has that courage, so she acts as if she likes boys but may not. Some gays carry this act so far that they end up getting married and having children before they finally admit to who they really are.
You also have to keep in mind that experimentation with sexual orientation is common at your age. Not a big deal. Your brain will continue to develop until age 25, so your sensibilities are going to evolve between now and then. Just like yourself for being a good person, stay relaxed and don't overthink things.
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Your at a younger stage that your very curious about everything,. but there is three common types,.
Straigt,. Lesbian/Gay or bi-sexual.
Now because you feel gross on the concept of being a lesbian shows a straight side,. It is probably that you are just curious about all that jazzz.
Hope this helps:)
*Jasmine~!
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You're more than likely just curious when you're younger. It may be that you will be bisexual or even eventually become a lesbian if you're having these feelings now but you shouldn't worry about labels and live your life in a way that makes you happy. You're friend could be bisexual or she just really loves spending time with you. If you're truly interested in having a casual relationship with her, you should go out on some friend dates with her. Like go to the mall or have coffee or even the movies and see how she reacts to you when you're alone. If she seems to be into you, try having a sleep over and play a little truth or dare. That should give you the final sign if she's into you more than just friends. I hope this helps and good luck.
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