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He Vanished Without a Trace, or a Word.
So I was dating a guy whom I really liked for about a week. He stated to me that he was relocating on to the area where i live, we spent a lot of time together, spent father's day with him helped him out when his work vehicle was in the shop everything that i possible could do to be nice to him. he spoke with my roommate and she asked him what was his intentions for me he told her that he really liked me and wanted to start a relationship with me. the next day I spoke with him three times we text back and forth. Well the last conversation I had with him, he wasn't mad there was a connection problem and said he would call me back. The conversation was going great I had asked him was he going to be up when i got off from work because i wanted to see him after i got off from work. He said yeah. Well after the connection problem with the phone he said he was going to call me back he never did, so i text him a question he didn't respond i texted another question and he didn't respond. So after i get off work and I get to the place where he's staying he doesn't answer his phone, his room phone or my text. Now i'm pissed so I come back to his room the next morning speak with the hotel manager and they said he checked out the day that I spoke with him. Now i'm curious because he didn't mention that to me. So I call and no answer and I text him letting him know that I'm worried about him. and still no response for about 22 hours I'm calling and texting him worried sick about him and no reply. So i called for the last time and his daughter answers the phone hands the phone to him he answers with hello and all I say I just wanted to know that your ok and he hangs up. before this call I sent him, his brother and his niece a message on facebook basically saying that I'm a concerned friend and wanted to know if he was ok. But know that I know that he's ok I'm pisssed because he couldn't even tell me that he was ok, and why he did what he did......I really did like this guy and don't know what to do....Someone please help me.....
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He's a dick.
Unforcunately, that is all you are every likely to know.
He is probably a dick with another woman on the side (or, you were the other woman all along.)
But whatever his reasons, or excuses, you can rest assured that they are not good enough, and that he is a selfish dick.
Get used to not knowing. You'll live most of your life not quite being sure why or whatfor.
You know what you absolutely needed to know:
This guy is a selfish ass, and you are better off without him.
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Well reading this makes me feel very sad. It is so wrong what he did to you. But if he is going to leave just like that and cant even say a word then forget him. He isnt worth your time. You are better than that. There is someone out there for you and he wasnt that person. I know it may be hard because he lied to you and manipulated you and made you believe he was a good guy, when he wasnt at all. And you even felt a strong connection. But he just dropped off the face of the earth and didnt have the courtesy to say goodbye. You heard his voice and you know he is okay. So my advice to you is to be strong, it may hurt now but in the future it will only be a scar in your memories. When you think of him you will no longer feel hurt or betrayed. So tonight its a tub of icecream and tears but tomorrow its time to make him regret ever messing with you! Get dressed up and go out and have fun find yourself a good man he could never compete with and show this guy what he could have had. But most importantly never go back to him. If he sees you happy he may come back and try to lie his way back into your heart, get him back by not giving him the time of day! You are going to be okay! Just keep your eyes open, you will find the one you are meant to be with :) good luck!
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