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Impossible to be loved...
I'm 18, and female.
I've never been on a date, and i've never had a boyfriend. Is that normal for someone my age?
I'm told i'm pretty, and I know I have a good personality. I have a lot of close friends. I do a lot of community service and work with my church... i'm the type of person that just loves to help people, and I love most everyone I meet. I'm great with people.
But i've never been asked out... My best friend says it's because my heart is closed... I don't know if I believe her though... I really want a relationship more than anything. I'm self-conscious, but I don't think I let that get in my way... But no one i've liked has ever liked me back.
I guess i'm just wondering what's wrong with me. All of my friends have had multiple boyfriends, and i've never even had anyone interested in me. Not that I know of... I mean, i've never really flirted or put myself out there, but still... it scares me.
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I was just like you when I was younger, I never had a boyfriend and all my friends did. It was a combination of factors, mainly to do with my self-confidence but also because I had high standards so subconsciously/consciously I wasn't letting boys in. The more you worry about it, the more "desperate" you get - boys can sense this a mile away and it scares them off. Try to focus on doing things that make you happy, forget about boys if you can. Don't see every boy you meet as a potential, just a friend. Once you are truly happy in yourself, they will be lining up for you.
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Dont put yourself down you are a wonderful intellegent beautiful young girl and the right guy is out there waiting... try being a little more open and outgoing and flirty... if the guys are not giving you the attention you want than approach them and start the flirting... there is nothing wrong with you lots of people dont get romantically involved right away.. you got this good luck
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