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friends with benefits
well i am 15 years old and theres this guy who comes up here during the summer, he is basically my neighbor and he likes me. I kinda like him too but i didnt want to start a relationship with him because he is my neighbor for the summer, but ive been hanging out with him for the past couple of weeks and we ended up kissing yesterday and we made out today. So now i feel bad because i didnt want to start anything with him but i really like him:/ should i stop or what should i do?
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Just recognize things for what they are. This is a temporary fling. You can talk about it with him, saying that given the living situation you both are in making a long term go of your relationship is very unlikely but that doesn't have to keep you two from making out occasionally.
Look, I kissed and made out with a lot of girls when I was a teenager and some of it was just for fun. So relax and don't get all emotionally involved and enjoy what you guys are doing for what it is.
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aww well this is a summer romance alright, just keep talking and having fun, but try not to fall for him as long distance never works, tell this to him and you'll be fine :)
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This sounds so sweet. Keep having fun but do not go all the way or do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. Since it's only for the summer the down side of things is that you are going to be crushed when he has to go back home so please keep that in mind. But, you are young so have fun and keep it safe. I wish I could go back to when I was 15. What a fun time. There is always facebook, webcam, and cell phones. Put them to use when he goes back home and then plan something for next summer. This is the time of your life. Good luck and please BE SAFE :)
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At 15 you should not even be thinking of the true definition of the saying "friends with benefits." Friends with benefits is strictly and adult sexual situation and you are far from being at the age of adult consideration.
I would suggest that as summer friends you keep it simple and just let it be a boy next store relationship. One where you both keep your clothes on and in their proper place.
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Well honestly at 15 I think that you may not be ready for a friend with benifits or anything of that nature but you are going to do what pleases you so I suggest that you tell the boy your intentions and make sure that he is in agreement with it also make sure that if you have sex you use condoms and some other type of birth control you dont want to end up pregnant so youg good luck to you :)
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