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"The one" is moving away. Do I tell him how I feel?
The guy that I think is "the one" is moving 1,959 miles away from me and I having a hard time imagining life without him, sure we tease each other but it will never be the same without him. Also I don't know whether to tell him if I love him so much that I can't live without him or wait to see what happens. He is also my best guy friend and we have a very strong friendship. We talk to each other about everything and I really need some advice before I get too depressed. Please anyone? :'(
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You HAVE to tell him how much this move will hurt you. Tell him he's not just your boyfriend, hes you best friend! But sometimes if you love someone you have to let them go. Dumping this on him will make you feel better but he will be in a worse situation then before. Im sure he knows he'll be hurting you and if he puts his career first he's just looking out for himself. you'll move and find someone else, but if you love him you have to set him free, good luck :) xx
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Mine is moving back to Mexico in 3 days. The way I see it is you have nothing to lose. Tell him how you feel and if you guys are really that good of friends then it probably won't be that bad of a problem either way.
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You may be surprised to find out how he feels. But if he truly has no feelings it's best to maintain your friendship visit when you can but live it up now. Meet new people enjoy your life, discover new things. Trust me- right now is the time of your life. You don't want to look back regreting the time you wasted stressing over someone 1,959 miles away. I know it hurts right now; but let me share a story with you. Ok, I was three month pregnant living with my fiance planning my wedding when out of the blue he left me never to return never to see him again. I thought my life was over but look at me now. I'm happily married and thank the Lord everyday that he saw fit for this other guy to disapear out of my life and brought me the real love of my life. Basically I was a wreck. Crying non stop for a couple weeks but the pain faded and fast. I know you probably can't sleep, eat or get your mind to stop thinking about this but I promise you with time you will be ok. I PROMISE. Before you know it a year will have passed and you'll be doing your own thing.
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This brings back memories... when I was about 13 or 14 I had a boyfriend and I was so "in love" with him but I had to move away... all the way across the country.. it sucked i was heart broken... we had a few phone calls but then we drifted apart we were young and its hard to have a long distance relationship we are friends now but thats all it seems like you will never get over the pain but dont worry you will... tell him how you feel ... tell him you love him and maybe he just might stay
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well look at it this way if you really love this guy you dont wanna look back on your life and always regret letting him go so my suggestion is to tell him how you feel even if it isnt the outcome you wanted because this decision will follow you for the rest of your life hope this helped...
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