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I wanna stop being so sexual all the time with him.
My boyfriend and I see each other almost every week, including Saturdays. We have an awesome connection, always laughing, same interests, never a dull moment, always conversating, keeping the talks going and learning more and more about each other. We are a good match from what he says and I think he is amazing. We have the best chemistry and I think we are inseperable. We're crazy for each other!
But almost every time we meet, we end up fooling around. We don't go all the way, but just a foreplay and oral... He mentioned one day he wanted to stop being naughty and that our relationship didn't need to revolve around sex like all his other ones did... It makes me think he's extremely serious about our relationship even if we haven't been dating for a while. Still, he changed his mind, too, when we were at his house. He was getting "handsy"... and I laughed and we ended up having dry sex, but after yesterday I really want to stop being so sexual. I'm all for a little fun but I think I wanna slow down...
How do I say it sweetly yet firmly to let him know? He always is about what I want, and he's very sentimental and understanding and patient about things...but still...
Thanks!
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Hi There(:
I think you should tell him exactly what you said here. Tell him you always are up for a little fun but don't want to go ALL the way. Flirt, Makeout, Kiss. And if you feel ready which should be about once a week for a normal girls hormones. Tell him how you REALLY feel(:
xoxoxo
Dakotaa.
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Just tell him that there is more to a relationship than sex also you can try doing things that dont just revolve around staying in places where this can happen go for a walk or to the movies out to dinner stuff like that... let him know that you like all the cutesy playing around and touching but you want to know that he is going to be there for you for more than just that reason hoped i helped
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