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Sorry if this is in the wrong category for Sexual Health and Reproduction.
So I am 15, and a male, thinking about having sexual intercourse for my first time.
I don't really have a private place to do anything sexual, and my girlfriend suggested a movie theater but I am not sure what could happen if we were to get caught. What would happen if we got caught? I told her i wasn't to sure about being in a movie theater. She said she would atleast give me head, but i still am not sure if we should even do that there because it is still a public place. What would happen if we were caught while she was giving me head? What are your thoughts about this? (link)
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Hi There(:
All I can reallyy say is DON'T do it in a parking lot. Me and my Boyfriend went to see a movie and ended up in the parking lot waiting for our parents. We ended up having sex. we were in a little bit in a hurry to finish bbefore our parents came. He ended up popping my cherry becuz he was trying too hard. Make sure you have a proper place where you are in NOO hurry.
xoxo
Dakotaa.
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okay am 13 and am really sorry for my self. i feel horny and i masturbate. i really feel like doing it. i go to porn sites and i take my uncle's movies and watch them wen am alone. i feel like having sex like everytime. am tired and this feeling drives me CRAZY. really i need help. (link)
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Hi There(:
Ok. This is a completely normal thing. It's alright to feel like this. Just make sure you are the proper age when you experience the sexual release with a girl.
MAKE SURE YOU ARE READY!!(:
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My boyfriend and I see each other almost every week, including Saturdays. We have an awesome connection, always laughing, same interests, never a dull moment, always conversating, keeping the talks going and learning more and more about each other. We are a good match from what he says and I think he is amazing. We have the best chemistry and I think we are inseperable. We're crazy for each other!
But almost every time we meet, we end up fooling around. We don't go all the way, but just a foreplay and oral... He mentioned one day he wanted to stop being naughty and that our relationship didn't need to revolve around sex like all his other ones did... It makes me think he's extremely serious about our relationship even if we haven't been dating for a while. Still, he changed his mind, too, when we were at his house. He was getting "handsy"... and I laughed and we ended up having dry sex, but after yesterday I really want to stop being so sexual. I'm all for a little fun but I think I wanna slow down...
How do I say it sweetly yet firmly to let him know? He always is about what I want, and he's very sentimental and understanding and patient about things...but still...
Thanks! (link)
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Hi There(:
I think you should tell him exactly what you said here. Tell him you always are up for a little fun but don't want to go ALL the way. Flirt, Makeout, Kiss. And if you feel ready which should be about once a week for a normal girls hormones. Tell him how you REALLY feel(:
xoxoxo
Dakotaa.
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18/f
I believe in karma, I really do. And that's why it scares me. I'll start off that in 7th grade, I liked another guy while I was dating someone else. But I chose to stay with my boyfriend during that time and forgot about the guy I was crushing on. And after we broke up, I got cheated on 3 times in a row by 3 different guys (not at the same time of course). So that's what gets me so scared now. I LOVE the person who I'm with right now, after all the people I have dated... He's different. I really like him, and I really want to stay.
But lately I've been really paranoid of him liking another girl or having some interest or whatnot. The reason why was because 6 months ago, I had a coworker who liked me. It was obvious, he showed some interest but he knew that I had a boyfriend. The thing is, I started to like him and I hated that about myself. Every day I went to work, he was working with me and then when I get off my boyfriend picks me up from work. I felt so guilty, but I never let my sight off of my boyfriend. Did I cheat? No. There were friendly hugs like bye, but that's it. Nothing more.
My boyfriend knew that he liked me. Later on, I told him how I felt because I never liked hiding anything from him. And he was hurt. But the thing is, I stopped talking to my coworker because he eventually quit, and now I only ask how he's doing once every... 3 months?? But because of that I'm so paranoid that the guy that I really like, what if he likes someone else?
I thought that maybe the karma was the first time my boyfriend broke up with me. I was devastated and we got back together a couple of months later on. And now I'm afraid of him breaking up with me again.
Do you think karma will hit me? Or do you think the first break up was actually the karma? (link)
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This is normal. But the thing you should do is sit downwith your boyfriend and tell him. Tell him you really like him and possibly ask him to tell you if he feels like he is losing interest of you too another girl. And if he ever does tell you he is losing interest to another girl, ask him what you can do about this. MAKE SURE YOU TWO COMMUNICATE!!
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I want to have sex. im a virgin and im tired of that. No lectures. How do i do it with this guy? We have made out before but long time ago so were not as close anymore.. any tips on how to ''seduce'' him haha.?
Oh and dont even bother lecturing me im not stupid. Im responisble.I dont need you to recite the reasons i shouldnt.
im just shy and not flirty. guys love me but in bestfriends way. I just want to have agood ol' hookup and dont know how to achieve that with my non outgoing non flirty personality..
Im Not ugly or fat either im just not looked at as a slut or someone you wanted that way. (link)
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Ok. I had sex with my boyfriend. Just let him know that you are interested and reDady too have sexual relations with the guy you choose. Make sure too listen too him. And tell him you ARE ready. WEAR A CONDOM!!! You don't want to be stuck in that position. And one more thing. Make sure you have a proper place to perform these relations. Me and My boyfriend have done it in a praking lot once and he ended up "Popping My Cherry."
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Hello I'm a 20 year old female and I'm always tired. Even after getting like 6 hours or sleep or so a night I'm still tired. I've been working the late shift at work 4pm-1am so I haven't been getting to bed until real late. Do I have a vitamin deficiency? I have to slam 5 hour energies just to get me through the day. Any advice on what I could do to help become more rested. I do work out like 2 times a week but I feel like that makes it worse. Thanks and I do rate! (link)
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It's probably high or low blood sugar. You might want to get this checked by a doctor, before it gets serious. This doctor's appointment WILL require blood work!
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I am of 16 and female....it my first love ever....i love him a lot and i know he love me too...but i dont what had happened to him, his reaction was changed suddenly....he always says i love u a lot and i cant live without u,u r too sexy, too beaution,amazing,etc.....i love him too...and i know i cant live without him....suddenly his reaction towards me changed and he started saying dont text me or dont call me by mistake also...i will change my no. And will never talk to u.....it hurted me badly....i love him madly....seeing his changed attitude made me cry....and made me to do hillarious things like cutting my hand with knife,etc.....i know he love me more than anything in the world but at the same time i cant bear his changed behaviour too.....please give advices....i need u all... Thank you! (link)
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The Only Answer Is: Do not react in violence towards yourself.
Although this behavior is really hard too deal with, it will happen again.
He may even be coming up for the next step.
Do not freak.
If this behavior continues, sit down with him and discuss how you feel.
If all else fails. Let the behavior continue for a while, as this may just be a stage. It will pass no matter what. Don't worry(:
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